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joris
05-31-2006, 08:14 AM
I've heard of phileo/agapao love before... now again;
How will you become... loving like God is loving :y10:
Oh well, I guess that's a worthless question :sad:
NeedGod
05-31-2006, 08:57 AM
huh? :unsure:
I think there is only one true form of love inthis world, and that is agape love, Godly love. its the only one that really exists. the rest are just forms of and emulations of love, not really love...like fire on a computer screen, it isnt really fire and it cant really burn, but it looks like fire. it might even look more real at times. but the real fire, now, that burns
huh? :unsure:
I think there is only one true form of love inthis world, and that is agape love, Godly love.
Amen! I wouldn't say the others don't exist, rather they are just perversions of Agapao love. Brother Branham said Agapao love is the highest form of love, the rest are perversions, Phileo love being the next down from Agapao, then lust and then unfaithful love or something along those lines. I can't remember the exact quote.
And I'm not entirely certain what your question is Brother Joris but theres no question about the Word that is worthless I'm sure :)
NeedGod
05-31-2006, 09:05 AM
i so do want agape love in my life. It is perfect. If i could have that, oh to have such love.
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to ask about loveis the greatest thing Joris, it shows youyearn for it. it is the best thing you can ever get in life, love is
joris
05-31-2006, 09:31 AM
it is the best thing you can ever get in life, love isheh, I thought like that even before I was christian (but in world, seeing like that only makes one totally miserable)
NeedGod
05-31-2006, 09:35 AM
yeah, its so bad in the world. i used to think i had found love only to be dissapointed, but in God, you can always lean on Him who is everlasting and be happy, no matter what happens, He is always there for you.
i have been dissapointed inlove and in life, but when i look up to Jesus, i feel comforted. what more, only in church can you find a guy or a girl who'll love you truly, because they have the love of God in them
BroTrevor
05-31-2006, 10:36 AM
But what actually is love?
Haven't we all heard that "God is love".
So if God is love...then how do we get love?? How do we have love?
If we have God in our lives...that sweet Holy Spirit, then we can love like He does.
See, the world, it doesn't have love, because it doesn't have God. If God is love, and you don't have GOd, then you don't have love. The world has an emotion, a copy of what they've seen of Godly love... but they don't really posses love.
Love is supernatural. Love had no beginning, so it will have no end, it is eternal.
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As I was talking to a reporter today, I said, "The--the love down here, the human love would make you shoot a man on account of your wife, but the love that comes from above would make you pray for his lost soul." Quite different. See? One of them is a love down here on this level, human love, and the other is the love that comes from above.
Godly love supercedes emotions.
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joris
05-31-2006, 12:02 PM
But what actually is love?
Haven't we all heard that "God is love".
So if God is love...then how do we get love?? How do we have love?
If we have God in our lives...that sweet Holy Spirit, then we can love like He does. like... uhm; do I love? how do I love? how is, if I love, how is it of value if I am not succeeding in reaching out
This is something difficult to me :confused: I know... Father loves me; how? why? I know... I thank Him for Jesus coming here... I thank Him for Him being my Father... I don't know... how am I even giving Him love? How am I loving... :y10: well anyway
BroTrevor
05-31-2006, 05:03 PM
like... uhm; do I love? how do I love? how is, if I love, how is it of value if I am not succeeding in reaching out
This is something difficult to me :confused: I know... Father loves me; how? why? I know... I thank Him for Jesus coming here... I thank Him for Him being my Father... I don't know... how am I even giving Him love? How am I loving... :y10: well anyway
It has to start with ACCEPTING His love. Since He is love... He is the start of love..
Why?? That doesn't really matter. That's the great thing about His love. There is no why... He just does. He can't help Himself... Jesus is crazy about you and me Joris.
How? He came as a man the Son of God, to die for you... Because he wanted you to feel loved. The love is much stronger when there's every reason not to love you isn't it? Oh what Love the Father hath.
Once you realize and accept this kind of love, well, you have no choice but to love others in the same way really. How else can you?? You didn't deserve the love you were given, you then have to love others that way...
joris
05-31-2006, 05:51 PM
the other day... some psychiatrist, asked me... how could people give me love, make me feel loved... I couldn't answer that
Then... but what does God do, as He is able to let me feel... warmth... what does He do... but I can't answer that either... does somebody know? :confused:
redeemed
06-01-2006, 02:27 PM
It has to start with ACCEPTING His love. Since He is love... He is the start of love..
Why?? That doesn't really matter. That's the great thing about His love. There is no why... He just does. He can't help Himself... Jesus is crazy about you and me Joris.
How? He came as a man the Son of God, to die for you... Because he wanted you to feel loved. The love is much stronger when there's every reason not to love you isn't it? Oh what Love the Father hath.
Once you realize and accept this kind of love, well, you have no choice but to love others in the same way really. How else can you?? You didn't deserve the love you were given, you then have to love others that way...
amen! thank you Bro Trevor!:)
BroTrevor
06-01-2006, 03:21 PM
the other day... some psychiatrist, asked me... how could people give me love, make me feel loved... I couldn't answer that
Then... but what does God do, as He is able to let me feel... warmth... what does He do... but I can't answer that either... does somebody know? :confused:
Faith my friend. Faith.
God's love is more real, more sure, more everything than what you feel.
Feeling loved isn't the issue. The fact that God does love you, that His Word declares He loves you.
Now, will you accept/believe that or wont you. Once you truly accept/believe it...then you'll be getting somewhere my friend.
God's love pouring over you... saying "I love you, I choose you, I died for you... I want you to be my wife..." Oh my...it's almost too much!
Love isn't just emotion my friend... there's alot of "choice" in love. There's action in love.
joris
06-01-2006, 06:14 PM
God's love pouring over you... saying "I love you, I choose you, I died for you... I want you to be my wife..." Oh my...it's almost too much!I know... though also... I don't understand - longing to experience Him being there... and lacking that experience; how does those two facts match up :confused: it's difficultLove isn't just emotion my friend... there's alot of "choice" in love. There's action in love.(no believing is not all about emotions; do you think Jesus was feeling nice hanging on that cross? I tell you He didn't) yeah I know all that;
it's just that I've some big need for love as emotion as well, and I'm not experiencing that (love as emotion) from people like everyone else here is used to :y10:
redeemed
06-01-2006, 06:50 PM
who says everyone is experiencing that?
joris
06-01-2006, 07:06 PM
:sad: guess... sorry about that one :012:
it's just... I heard christians tell too many times I shouldn't care about emotions or so, and that... it hurts:sad:
:sad: guess... sorry about that one :012:
it's just... I heard christians tell too many times I shouldn't care about emotions or so, and that... it hurts:sad:
There is nothing wrong with emotions in of themselves, God feels emotions, he loves, hates, he can get angry and he can be happy. God is a jealous god, jealousy is an emotion.
That said it is easy for Satan to prey upon emotions, so we always got to take things back to the Word. If you're in sin and your happy about it, well you've got something to think about there. But if you're happy because you are a part of the chosen few in the end time, a part of the Bride who is loved by God then I say be happy and rejoice!
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BroTrevor
06-01-2006, 11:10 PM
:sad: guess... sorry about that one :012:
it's just... I heard christians tell too many times I shouldn't care about emotions or so, and that... it hurts:sad:
Joris, Jesus doesn't want you to hurt in this way I don't think. I don't know that there is anything I can say to make it all go away, to make you feel what you are longing to feel.
Know that He loves you in that way tho, and I will be praying for a breakthrough in your life.
Angelo
06-02-2006, 08:05 PM
:sad: guess... sorry about that one :012:
it's just... I heard christians tell too many times I shouldn't care about emotions or so, and that... it hurts:sad:
What could possibly be the reason why they'd think like that, Joris?
There must be a valid reason for their belief.
AgapZoe
06-03-2006, 06:56 AM
I've heard of phileo/agapao love before... now again;
How will you become... loving like God is loving :y10:
Oh well, I guess that's a worthless question :sad:
hmmm?dont think its as worthless as you have put it Joris! and all i can say is its Divine love..which is welll,to me..agapao love...that doth exist.....anything else i term it as an impersonation of the devil! God help me love like You! (correct me if am wrong.)
God bless you.
joris
06-05-2006, 05:28 PM
There must be a valid reason for their belief.if I understand their thinking correctly, they're just judging wildly -- they seem to think I'm saying "I only want to believe for feelings", which is just not true. In case there is a valid reason, I'm not seeing it;
what I do see is, Father isn't telling me He doesn't care about my emotions; He cares a great deal in fact
BroTrevor
06-05-2006, 06:41 PM
if I understand their thinking correctly, they're just judging wildly -- they seem to think I'm saying "I only want to believe for feelings", which is just not true. In case there is a valid reason, I'm not seeing it;
what I do see is, Father isn't telling me He doesn't care about my emotions; He cares a great deal in fact
He would above all thiings that you prosper and be in health.
I think what they are trying to say is, that emotions aren't necessarily what God is looking for. He is looking for rugged faith in the Word of God, whether you feel it or not.
Now true faith in the Word, and a true experience, and a filling of the Holy Ghost will bring emotion...true enough. How can it not! Oh to think of the joy of that wonderful place we will go to! To think of His love for me!! My... lately... I just have been wanting to dive into His presence...
Oh my... Emotion doesn't mean you have something...many things can bring emotion. But rugged faith in the Word of God. My what that will do!!
He wants you to feel loved Joris. Will you first stand on the Word of God and believe He loves you and died for you first tho?
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