Temptation...

[NeedGod]

my friends are all not virgins and it is so sad. one of them is even expecting a child and she got an A in high school. she got pregnant by our high school teacher. thing is, it is so hard to remain a virgin in the modern world. i keep being teased about it and i have even left some of my friends due to this. sometimes one just want to give up and be done but something always holds me back, i know in me that my soul will not let me, the One who is in me can not allow it. but the pressure is so much. does anyone else experience this too?

[All4Jesus]

Sorry no not reli. I get teases but I don't feel pressure at all. There is no way I would lose my virginity to some sick boy.......I don't want to, don't need to to prove to my dumb friends that somehow i've got it going on. Please, laugh all you want but I love being single and a virgin. The only person i'm in love with is God always. Anyway my 14 year old 'friend' just had a baby and ye sick!!!!! Thank God i don't go to a mixed school but I do see reli horrific stuff at my girls school. What is it with underage sex!!!!!!! Excuse me :D

[collegegirl]

does anyone else experience this too?
Maybe not to the extent that you do...but sometimes it helps because then you get even more resolved not to do it. Sometimes the best way to avoid the temptation is to avoid the source of it, like certain friends, maybe. There are times when I do feel like, who cares, everyone is doing it, and you almost feel as though you are slipping, but that is not what you were intended for. You are MORE than a conqueror.

JOHN 16:33 These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.

He has already overcome everything that we are going through. Just let Him know what you are going through, and tell Him you need help, and ask Him to take that desire away from you. And send me an email.

[blessed]

When i was a teenager most of my friends were doing it but the Lord knew my heart and he gave me the grace to hold on...its a test some of us go through but you just take it before the Lord and he will give you the strength..peer pressure can be a very dangerous thing, you must be in prayer and stay under the blood try not to do anything to encourage those spirits around you, they can be very dangerous and stay away from those friends who make you want to compromise. The Lord will take you through this test.

[Mr Cross]

I'm fortunate in that God made me incredibly uncomely, therefore my only problem comes from the temptation that the opposite gender supplants. I feel I am incredibly lucky in this manner, if for no other reason, that lack of luster has increased my charm exponentially to make up the difference. Yes, I wouldn't trade my homeliness for anything.


Incredible Fact; About 90% of this reply was completely a joke.

[Babyruth]

I haven't had any trouble with this, but it is a major problem with girls at my school. I feel sorry for them, but it is their choice.

[blessed]

its a sad thing especially since they are not taught right

[Babyruth]

I agree with you.

[NeedGod]

uuuh, i should have put this under the girls section but thingis some of my friends who are guys have the same problem too.

[collegegirl]

Well, it is something that both guys and girls struggle with. Besides, I have heard tell that there have been guys in the GIRLS ONLY forums, so I guess it wouldn't have made all that much of a difference. Also, Mr. Cross, beauty is all in the eye of the beholder, so you might be horribly uncomely to yourself, but to someone else, you might be that suave, debonair, handsome, independetly wealthy young gentleman*** that they are looking for.

[collegegirl]

***For those of you who are wondering, that is a WYR, Bro. Barry joke.

[JoeC]

...but to someone else, you might be that suave, debonair, handsome, independetly wealthy young gentleman*** that they are looking for.

Weird how that works, huh?

[JoeC]

... sometimes one just want to give up and be done but something always holds me back, i know in me that my soul will not let me, the One who is in me can not allow it. but the pressure is so much...

Namwacha, I've got something I need to get off my heart. Please listen very carefully.

Based upon what you have said in this and other threads... friends convincing you to drink, pressure to lose God's gift of chastity, and other pressures from spirits remnant from your experience in the world, it seems to me that you've been placing yourself situations that only a mature Christian can be expected to handle. Do you really think that wise - especially when you yourself say that you are still a very weak Christian?

Between your worldly friends and the obviously secular university you are attending, one could conclude that you are doing the most UNwise thing for one in your position.

My advice? Take a semester or two off. Separate from worldly friendships - completely. Insulate yourself with believer only fellowship. Wash yourself clean and free of the spirits that are still trying to lay claim onto your life through the cleansing waters of the Word. Establish a strong relationship with Jesus Christ through personal communication with him.

When you are ready, begin to slowly increase your contact with the world, never decreasing your contact with Christ. Use your own judgement and the judgement of those close to you to decide when that time of readiness is.

I know I've been straight with you, but seeing that you've been straight in detailing your problem to us and asking for our support, I think it only fair to you. I pray that you consider my words carefully and that you will ask for God's continued direction in your life.

With Brotherly Love,
Josiah Cornett

[collegegirl]

I couldn't have put it better. I would have to say that I couldn't agree more. Thank you, Josiah, for summing it all up like that. Clear cut, precise, and I would have to say that probably goes for all of us. I totally agree with him, namwacha, and I believe that is what you need to do. Moses had to spend 40 years in the desert to get right with the Lord. Paul the Apostle had to spend, what, 3 years before coming back to the bretheren after his conversion before he was ready to preach the gospel. So then what about us needing revival? Dig into the Word. Stay away from the bad influences, and get lost in His love, and His tenderness and caring.

James 4:7
Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

What a better way to resist the devil than to avoid his traps all together by hiding in Christ.

[chocolateismybestfriend]

wow strong thread.

I've made a lot of mistakes in my Christian walk, i've grown every year from those mistakes though. I am ashamed of them, yet looking back, in the end they've made me stronger. I would not be in the position i am today, i wouldnt have the character i have today if i had not fallen for temptation.

I feel like God has 'allowed' these things in my life to happen, only because He knew in the end i'd come back to Him, with a stronger thirst then every before.

I am not saying its right to fall, or do things against the Word on purpose, or test God - but we all have our own walk in this life. My walk isnt the same as yours, perhaps i needed to fall in order to be raised up, perhaps you are already raised up.

It is true however, to watch carefully who you associate with, because their influence creeps up ever so slowly until it consumes you. You want to be surrounded by a Godly influence, in a Godly atmosphere, around those who will help you lead a life that glorifies God.

I have had to leave all my school friends behind, which wasnt hard since i finished school 2 years ago. I may say hello to them when i past them on the streets, but that it is. We have nothing in common, completely different views, different morals and different values, and i'm GLAD i dont have anything in common because otherwise that would be a worry.

Keep your eyes focused on Him, banish all worldly influence from your life.

No matter what your "friends" may say about you, or offer you - NOTHING can compared to what He gives us daily, or what we're going to recieve after this life.

[JoeC]

any comments from Namwacha?

[NeedGod]

thank you all. I want to change, i really do, and i will do anything to do so. after all, what would it be worth i gain knowledge but lose what is most important?

[Babyruth]

Good advice Joe. It's tough being at school. I come home feeling so drained just from dealing with the people at school. I bring my Zen, Microsoft's equivalent of the Ipod, to school and listen on the bus to services and messages. It helps so much! It is really tough to not be influenced by the world. You don't even realize it sometimes, but it happens. I'm praying for you namwacha!

[NeedGod]

i know, when you sit with people andthey talk about things, you find yourself aafter some time not disagreeing completly with them. trust me, we do become like our friends evventually. since last week, people have started telling me i talk different and when i asked how and they told me, i figured i was talking like i do online. see, i am becoming like you all(i aint sure if thats a good thing :harhar1: ) anyhow, see, it happened without my noticing it. one gets influenced unknowingly. oh, have i said it before? well, i will say it agai, i love you people. :thumbup:

[chocolateismybestfriend]

love ya girl, stay strong!

[All4Jesus]

luv ya too, stay strong sis. Still praying :)

[Babyruth]

I'm praying for you too! Hope to get online at the same time soon.

[blessed]

Keep praying sis and listening to the message,.. God will continue to help you
Love yah

[chocolateismybestfriend]

These words spoke to me once upon a time very dramatically.
I thought they might help you :)

Circumcise yourself. Cut off the things of the world. Pray until God sends down His blessings upon you and those things become as dead as door nails. Then come back into Christ. - Bro Branham

[NeedGod]

i love you all sooooo much. ok, maybe i say that too any times but it is true, i love you all sooooo much. i cant stop saying that. ok, let me say it one last time, i love you all so much. there, i feel bettere now. :thumbup:

[chocolateismybestfriend]

love you too - its important to have enouragement and fellowship.

[HotShot53]

Definately, fellowship with other believers is very important to keep you strong. It's been awesome to hang out with everyone, starting with xanga, and now here too....

[JoeC]

Total agreement here. Though I think some need to bear in mind that fellowship should be done in moderation - whether face to face or over cyberspace. Fellowship is just a temporary reprive from the battle - not a leave of absence from the war.

I'm just saying some people get so carried away, going to every youth function they can get to and spending hours and hours online, that it interupts their life. Even fellowship can be a vice if not taken in moderation.:)

[HotShot53]

Lol, fine, fine, I'll try to get out into the real world more... though I really hove no idea what I'd do out there.... any suggestions?

[blessed]

you should start by moving away from the computer..slowly slowly take your hands off the keyboard..then stand up , turn right.. walk out the door

[chocolateismybestfriend]

HAHA DJ i guess it is true, you are an addict

Fellowship is important with each other,

but more importantly we need to fellowship with God.

Make sure you make time to read your bible, listen to a sermon, prayer time and not just come on here and chat, or go to every youth camp/convention etc

[JoeC]

I think you've hit on something, Sarah. Many times we think we're doing the spiritual thing by going to camps and being here, there, and everywhere when special meetings come up... but sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is have a consistent fellowship with God. It really is in the simple things.

[FreeAtLast]

I totally agree JoeC.

that´s spiritual. to have a daily walk with Christ! And prayer is the key to it all.

[NeedGod]

amen to that. we should do that too...

[Richard]

I think you've hit on something, Sarah. Many times we think we're doing the spiritual thing by going to camps and being here, there, and everywhere when special meetings come up... but sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is have a consistent fellowship with God. It really is in the simple things.

Joe, I agree with you 100% as it is a personal walk.

[NeedGod]

i had promised the Lord that i would log off at 7.30 and do my work. so it got to 7.30 to do school work and i said 7.45 and you know what, the next post i clicked open was this one. io think God is telling me something. i need to log off. whoever doesnt believe in God should read this, i know He is talking to me.

[AgapZoe]

my friends are all not virgins and it is so sad. one of them is even expecting a child and she got an A in high school. she got pregnant by our high school teacher. thing is, it is so hard to remain a virgin in the modern world. i keep being teased about it and i have even left some of my friends due to this. sometimes one just want to give up and be done but something always holds me back, i know in me that my soul will not let me, the One who is in me can not allow it. but the pressure is so much. does anyone else experience this too?

it's good that you know that the One that dwelleth in your soul is greater than loosing your virginity while you are still young and not married...
funny it is couz...i just started a thread on the same issue..''virginity'' and well, are we just more than sisters than cousins. i hope that our fellowship with the rest of the body of Christ will help us grow and mature more in this message as we wait upon the coming of the Lord.
let's hear what the rest will tell us about this issue...
i'm sure joe, samurai and the rest are more than ready to share.
but i believe that no matter the situation, God will see us all through..we are all facing the same hardship!!
halima.

[NeedGod]

yeah mu, its like telepathy or something, isnt it. wow, interesting huh?

[chloe]

Namwacha that was a really good topic. People tend to do things due to pressure sometimes your very close friends come and tell you I have done this or that and you think. Hey if they've done it and I know them to have such a strong character then I guess there is no harm in doing it myself.

But I believe everytime you want to do something you have to be sure that you can live with the consequences.

And on a lighter note. Lisa Kudrow of FRIENDS lost her virginity at the age of 31 when she got married


:banana:

[NeedGod]

oh, thats not a light note ( i told you she has a dry sense of humour) thats a very serious note.

[morning_mist]

good for lisa.....she didn't give in to the pressure :thumbup:

[JoeC]

Proverbs says that the marriage bed is undefiled, so in God's eyes those who keep themselves for their mate are always virgins.

[NeedGod]

amen to that joe. :thumbup:

[BroTrevor]

WHO.IS.THIS_ CLARKSVILLE.IN SUNDAY_ 59-1004M
Then, if that is true, a supernatural God cannot change His nature to fit people's nature. People has to change their nature to fit God's supernatural plan. And that's why people cry, "Who is this?" It's God in the midst of His people. They don't understand it. God will never come to your level; you'll have to come to His. God will not come to your requirement; you have to come to God's. And then when that requirement is met upon a promise that God made to redeem the people. If that requirement has met, your entire being changes; your thinking changes. Your habits change. Everything about you changes. Your desires change. Your living changes. Your habits change. You change. Everything about you changes, 'cause there's a new life in you.

WHO.IS.THIS_ CLARKSVILLE.IN SUNDAY_ 59-1004M
E-35 That's what makes the people today say, "Who is this? Is this that fellow, used to work over here? Is this that... Who is this? Where'd he go to school at? What credentials does he pack?" says the preachers. "Where... Who is this woman? Ain't that the woman I used to see out there on the street?" Yes. "What's the matter with her?" Something happened. "Ain't this the woman that used to wear shorts?" It's something happened. "Isn't this the man that used to smoke cigars?" But something happened. "Isn't this the man that used to drink?" But something happened. "Isn't this the man and woman that used to curse and go to the nightclubs?" But they don't do it no more. "Who is this?" It's the Holy Spirit, the person of God living in them. "I'll go down to their churches to find out what's the matter," like the Pharisees did.

Keep Holding on sis. I know the pressures are out there. I know it can be hard, but once on the inside of the veil! The pressures begin to fade...you begin to just see Jesus, and everything else goes away.

Get the Holy Spirit. Seek the baptism of the Holy Spirit with all your heart. He will put HIS LIFE on the inside...and that'll change you, as Bro Branham said in the quote above.

[BroTrevor]

I also really like this one...

TEACHING.ON.MOSES_ JEFF.IN V-14 N-4 SUNDAY_ 56-0513
196 You children know what tar is, when they're fixing the streets, you know, Oooh, that awful smell. But it--it--it--it keeps the... It--it shuts out all the cracks on the street. And that's the way this does; it shuts out all water.
And that's what prayer does for the believer. That's what you, keeps the world out of you, is when you pitch yourself on your knees, and say, "Lord Jesus." And the Blood comes down and seals you all up so the devil can't get you. See, that's right. See? So then, oh, many times the people go around and say "it's awful," but that don't make any difference; it keeps you safe. See? That's the main thing: keep safe. Say you're old fashion, but, that doesn't matter; it keeps you safe.

"devil can't get to you"

Pray....and let the Blood come down and seal you all up!

[blessed]

Those were awesome quotes Trevor. Lord Bless you

[NeedGod]

amen all. i feel the blood already. i have been fading away this past week as i thought i couldnt feel God.but God always brings something to bring me back to Him and to experience Him in a whole new way. i love Him so much. He will see me through

[carlaj]

Originally Posted by namwacha
my friends are all not virgins and it is so sad. one of them is even expecting a child and she got an A in high school. she got pregnant by our high school teacher. thing is, it is so hard to remain a virgin in the modern world. i keep being teased about it and i have even left some of my friends due to this. sometimes one just want to give up and be done but something always holds me back, i know in me that my soul will not let me, the One who is in me can not allow it. but the pressure is so much. does anyone else experience this too?





i used to feel the same way when a lot of my friends i were close to started losing their's. but what i realized was that when i asked about it, they all told me it wasnt all it was made out to be. the ones who actually experienced it told me to wait that it wasnt worth it. thats why i dont stress about it anymore. like they say; "good things come to those who wait"

[chocolateismybestfriend]

i would have to say the same, 50% of my school friends have said to me they would have waited longer if given a chance to do it over.
It's not all its cracked up to be (i suspect, i have no clue really) except it being with "the one".

[NeedGod]

really, i am seeing it that way too now. wow, thanks people. you are blessings

[redeemed_lizzi]

my friends are all not virgins and it is so sad. one of them is even expecting a child and she got an A in high school. she got pregnant by our high school teacher. thing is, it is so hard to remain a virgin in the modern world. i keep being teased about it and i have even left some of my friends due to this. sometimes one just want to give up and be done but something always holds me back, i know in me that my soul will not let me, the One who is in me can not allow it. but the pressure is so much. does anyone else experience this too?

My 4 years of University were a real eye opener for me. I got to know myself very well and I didn't like everything I found out about myself. By God's grace I can sit here at 00:52 am and say I'm not what I want to be but thank God I'm not what I used to be. One thing I found out about myself is that although God was taking certain desires away from me, I very stupidly put myself into postitions where I would have to confront them again. And more often that not I would fail. Do Not put yourself in situations where you feel like you are bringing reproach unot your christian walk. Joe C is right, you need to separate yourelf from all things 'unsavoury', be they friends, Uni or work. IF YOUR FRIENDS ARE PRESSURING YOU THEN THEY CANNOT CALL THEMSELVES FRIENDS. A friend would want the best for you and would feel loath to make you feel bad. You are better of without such so called friends. Remember God has given this world up. This is a reprobate generation and the world we are living in is a big ol' lie. The Christian walk is our reality, anything else is Satan trying to distract us from what and where God wants us to be. We are living in a tremendous spiritual age. Please don't let Satan rob you of the inheritance Christ brought for you. I will keep you in my prayers sweetie, God richly bless and keep you.

[collegegirl]

As I sit here and read this, I feel greatly encouraged. I also am posting to encourage. not just about keeping yourself for that special someone, but if you take a look at this thread, you will see POSITIVE peer pressure. You reading this are going to be pressured into doing the RIGHT thing, or atleast if you have been reading this, and have had thoughts about doing the wrong thing, then I would hope that you would feel conviction in your heart, and a new resolve to go out there and live the way that Christ wants you to live.

[HotShot53]

Positive peer pressure is definitely helpful :) That's why I like camps so much, because you get to hang around and meet others who are living the Christian life, and showing that it can be done...

[NeedGod]

i separated myself from my high school best friend recently. i was feeling guilty over leaving since she got a baby on the 14 of feb this month. i used to find myself listening to funny music and getting encouraged to do strange things when with her. now, i decided to move away. and i feel so much better.

[redeemed_lizzi]

i separated myself from my high school best friend recently. i was feeling guilty over leaving since she got a baby on the 14 of feb this month. i used to find myself listening to funny music and getting encouraged to do strange things when with her. now, i decided to move away. and i feel so much better.

I know that must be hard and I pray that God keeps on strengthening you and keeping you.

[Flyboy]

im glad to see such positive influence..there are only a couple ppl on here that really kno me so i think its safe:) ...even though i was raised my entire life in this message i did not always walk in it. i fell way short when it came to temptation..i got in with the wrong crowd and thought i was havin the time of my life smokin,chewin, drinkin,and doin drugs(yes unfortunately i did it all..and im glad for my parents who rather than kicking me out prayed for me) then along one night i got to wonderin what was so cool about all that, everyones ure friend only as long as ure buyin etc. an then stab u in the bac the next day. from that point on ive walked with God and have never looked bac. i can only thank God for haveing mercy on me cause there are many ppl out there doing the same things i did that dont kno any better and have never had the opportunity to hear the message like i had. likely many of them would have never failed as i did if they had known better. i mjust glad to have had a second chance. of course blessed are those that overcome not those that fail and overcome..it is a much better testimony to have been tempted yet not have fallen for the devils tricks

[Flyboy]

sry that las one is sorta off the subject of temptation between guys and gurls..but still something on temptation

[NeedGod]

who cares if it went off tpopic bro, its the most beautiful thing ever that God saved you from all that. :yay: He is sooo great. and what more, its the prodigal son who gets the fatted lamb slaughtered for him, not the one who stayed home. of course they are both important. :yay: and it is the lamb which gets lost and the coin which gets lost which get celebrated for when they are found. oh brother, and you know what, that is us!!!!:yay:

[desertroses]

Amen to that!!! And Flyboy, what a great testimony you have!! I know a few people that have left the church. It's hard and I pray for them. God knows where His seeds are. And you know, we are told that a disobedient son, is still a son nonetheless. You know, all of the things that you have come through will only make you stronger in Him. Keep up the faith and God bless!

[blessed]

Your testimony is a blessing Flyboy, continue to walk in God's will and there are tremendous blessings in store for you.

[Flyboy]

thanx for the support all(does that make me a computer?) God has brought me a long way..but i still have much further to go..i got so many faults it would take a couple days to download the list with a T1 line so i wont overburden y'all by listin em all but i think one of my worst ones is my love for practical jokes..its goteen a lil outa hand a few times..:y10:

[NeedGod]

oh, you sure have a tought thing going there bro. but even if the list is as long as ten times around the world, dont forget that the Lord is mighty. if He could part the red sea for His children to pass, dont you think He is strong enough to take away all your flaws? amen..:yay: rejoice brother, for you are justified. when you get up from your knees, just remember, He forgave you and forgot. you never did it in the first place. so pray that He takes it all away. one of this fine days, we will be perfect.


practical joke???oh nooooooo!!!*running off*

[PETER1]

I have been reading all what you was saying about temptation in these last days and i congratulate you because of your position of keeping the Message pure. For you girls, it's not easy to leave in a kind of school environment surrounded by pagan girls but the Help of God, just be salty,perhaps you will bring one of them to Christ.
May the LORD bless yoy and keep you.
Bro. Peter Lozère.

[blessed]

Thank you for your kind words Bro Peter.

:welcome: to yqforums, its great to have you with us.

Feel free to create a thread in Welcomes & Introductions and tell us all about yourself.

Once again welcome and have fun.

[HotShot53]

Welcome to the forums :)

And I think a thread was already created in the W&I section for him, he just has to go there ;)

[fredmaina]

so sad to hear but remember that everytime those girls tease you about being a virgin you better tell them that "if you wanted to you could be like them anytime, but if the wanted to they cant be a virgin like you!" we live for principles!sadly even the brothers are also under the same pressure.that is why we should by all means try as much as possible to be in the company of believers so we can encourage one another.

[already bought]

so sad to hear but remember that everytime those girls tease you about being a virgin you better tell them that "if you wanted to you could be like them anytime, but if the wanted to they cant be a virgin like you!" we live for principles!sadly even the brothers are also under the same pressure.that is why we should by all means try as much as possible to be in the company of believers so we can encourage one another.

Amen. Virginty is something that when its gone its gone. But Praise God for those of us who are single who are still virgins.

[joris]

Amen. Virginty is something that when its gone its gone. But Praise God for those of us who are single who are still virgins.praise... yeah I guess so; it certainly didn't feel like something to praise for when I was rejected and lonely and desperate

[Lael]

People at work give me a hard time about. Telling me Im crazy... That I dont know what I'm missing out on. But If they only knew what there were truly missing out on. :sad:

[NeedGod]

yeah Joris, meneither. but know what, i am now glad i kept up with it. You know, i am glad all those hungry men rejected me just before i gave in. And i am glad for those times i kept myself pure not because i wanted to but because i had no one. I think its God working out a way for you to be pure even when you are giving up.

[BroTrevor]

praise... yeah I guess so; it certainly didn't feel like something to praise for when I was rejected and lonely and desperate


This is why we don't trust our feelings... but in God's Word. Romans 8:28!!

[EllyMae]

Bro Trevor, that couldn't be more true.

[leahmb]

praise... yeah I guess so; it certainly didn't feel like something to praise for when I was rejected and lonely and desperate

Have you heard the song "Praise him in the storm"? Your comment kind of reminded me of it. BTW, I love this song and find it very encouraging.

I was sure by now
God You would have reached down
And wiped our tears away
Stepped in and saved the day
But once again, I say “Amen”
and it’s still raining
As the thunder rolls
I barely hear You whisper through the rain
“I’m with you”
And as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise the God
Who gives and takes away
[Chorus:]
I’ll praise You in this storm
And I will lift my hands
For You are who You are
No matter where I am
Every tear I’ve cried
You hold in Your hand
You never left my side
And though my heart is torn
I will praise You in this storm
I remember when
I stumbled in the wind
You heard my cry You raised me up again
My strength is almost gone
How can I carry on
If I can’t find You
As the thunder rolls
I barely hear You whisper through the rain
“I’m with you”
And as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise the God
Who gives and takes away
[chorus]
I lift my eyes unto the hills
Where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord
The Maker of Heaven and Earth

[--faithful_star06--]

i love that song, definitly encouraging.

[NeedGod]

Yeah, Joris, you are in my prayers. And you n=know what, all you have to do is pray. Its really that simple

[blessed]

There is this old saying here that "God helps those who helps themselves", Now this don't apply to everything sometimes its good to stand still and see... but sometimes we need to make the extra effort.... make a step forward....

[AgapZoe]

I do agree here...

[joris]

There is this old saying here that "God helps those who helps themselves", Now this don't apply to everything sometimes its good to stand still and see... but sometimes we need to make the extra effort.... make a step forward....reading here again, and - I'm puzzled at what you're trying to say here...
me making a step, as God isn't doing all by Himself... often feels like oh why wouldn't He help me, to make steps if He requires me to make them; oh well, I guess He's doing that, just me not noticing :(

[NeedGod]

He makes miles towards you when you make a step towards him. Thats how He works. Now, if i could apply that in my life. So help me Jesus

-
Did you know standing for God is impossible? I have tried it. I guess i'll just have to let Him come in me Himself and hold me up.

[Jezz]

All you need to do is confess the Word of God. Be like Jesus was when Satan tempted Him. Say "It is written...." everytime the devil comes against you. No matter what it is, healing, finances, emotions, anything. Confess the Word. It is more than just praying.

[marichino_freedom]

you know what? thank you for posting that. truly. i really needed that encouragement. i've been letting my trials get the best of me. :)

[NeedGod]

The road gets so rough sometimes. When i travelled to South Africa i thought i would make a fresh clean start and just show everyone what this girl who follows Jesus is made of. I fell flat on my face. Now my fresh clean start is all muddy and murky. All i wanted was a fresh clean start.
But i know a certain detergent which can make this a fresh clean start. The Word. So now i need the strength to wash my life.
HELP ME JESUS!
But you know what, its just as Jezz said. The Word. Thats really all it takes.

[AgapZoe]

hey sisters...you know what without them trials,then how will you know God is The One to get you out of them?
it's good you have reeached a point where you have recognised that on your own,you can't. It's by God's power,and His mercy!
-God bless,
Halimah Muyoka.

[NeedGod]

When the mountain is steeper, we feel a sweeter victory when we get to the top

[blessed]

The road gets so rough sometimes. When i travelled to South Africa i thought i would make a fresh clean start and just show everyone what this girl who follows Jesus is made of. I fell flat on my face. Now my fresh clean start is all muddy and murky. All i wanted was a fresh clean start.

I've been where you are Sis, and I have made the same mistake you have... wanting to show everyone what this girl was made of.. that's when you will fall... It must be all about Jesus not you. Your fresh start should be because you want to bring Glory to him, because you want him to get the praise. Whatever you do it should be because you want to bring glory to Jesus, because you want him to be worshipped, let people talk about Jesus not Nammy but let them say Praise God look what Jesus can do.

Jesus loves you now rise up repent of your sins and give glory to Him he is worthy of all the Praise and Glory.

[BroTrevor]

It must be all about Jesus not you. Your fresh start should be because you want to bring Glory to him, because you want him to get the praise. Whatever you do it should be because you want to bring glory to Jesus, because you want him to be worshipped, let people talk about Jesus

<wipes tears from eyes>

Excellent.

[NeedGod]

THanks so much Sis. I love you sooooooo much.
When It gets so rough we try too hard and we forget we should not be trying but letting Him do it. i keep forgetting that. But i will make it. Dont worry everyone, you're not getting raptured without me so we better pray for each other