Guy Problems

[collegegirl]

So, I thought that I would make a problems thread under this section. Not that I really have a guy problem....but I thought that maybe us girls could ask advice from you guys on different things. Maybe you guys would feel free to ask advice from us girls about girls.

Anyways...It was just a thought. And I do have a question, but that will have to come later.....

[Christian-Samurai]

girls what are those??

[collegegirl]

Should have figured that you would be the first one on here with some kind of smart aleck remark. Ask your mom.

[morning_mist]

hahahha...that's a pretty smart aleck answer college :lol:

[Christian-Samurai]

who else could it be and really would you expect something less?

[morning_mist]

ahem!!!!!!!!!! am expecting a verbal combat here :banana:

[blessed]

Why are guys so clueless sometimes

[collegegirl]

OFF THE SUBJECT!!! We aren't talking about Samurai's lack of...whatever he lacks. We are talking about guy problems.

[blessed]

okayyyyyyy....please explain what u mean by guy problems...

[collegegirl]

Well, I posted it under dream girl, I believe. SHould be there.

[Christian-Samurai]

the biggest problem about guys is girls lol

[collegegirl]

Yeah. So you think. I can't help being a girl.

[blessed]

the biggest problem about guys is girls lol
Please explain that cause according to what i have seen guy=problem

[Christian-Samurai]

yeah sure of course thats your view cause your a girl

[All4Jesus]

I kind of agree with samurai. In my view a girl can get a guy to do anything when she uses a evil powers. Look at the world. How many horrid images to you see on telly mostly involving woman? It's like they run the world. Bro Branham preached a lot on woman-how they were the gods of this evil age. But of course these are worldly girls. We true christian girls are very different.

[blessed]

well all4jesus i think we are talking about christian boys ang girls here

[All4Jesus]

Oh!!! Sorry...

[blessed]

that's ok your point was a good one

[All4Jesus]

I kind of agree with samurai. In my view a girl can get a guy to do anything when she uses a evil powers. Look at the world. How many horrid images to you see on telly mostly involving woman? It's like they run the world. Bro Branham preached a lot on woman-how they were the gods of this evil age. But of course these are worldly girls. We true christian girls are very different.

Sorry ppl I don't know what I was thinking? It has nothing to do with the topic but oh well I have days when I just can't use my brain. I would love to delete this post but I can't. I didn't read the previous posts that's why I came up with this very very stupid reply. *all4jesus covers her face in shame*

[morning_mist]

it is ok All4Jesus, we understand....it happens from time to time...we might post some silly remarks that we are not aware of :D

[Babyruth]

It's not that bad. It's ok. Everyone messes up, but I don't think you messed up that bad anyways.

[blessed]

sure right it could have been much worse...:D, so don't feel bad

[NeedGod]

our pastore told us that men can use words to entice girls into doing anything. so guys, be careful with your words. you may think they are innocent but you may be stealing someones heart

[NeedGod]

i wanted to ask another thing, how can one tell if a guy is interested in her. you see, a lady and a sister should not ask a guy anything. so i wonder how one should know and not jump to conclusions. also, i wasa wondering how one should react or what one should do after that

[NeedGod]

oh, i have so many questions. well, another thing, again. if you are halfway through into a guy soo much, how should you behave around them. i usually act so stupidly. :peep: oh well. i am full of questions.

[marichino_freedom]

just be yourself (i know it sounds so lame, but SERIOUSLY) no one likes fake people who act "silly" (not saying that you do, but things like laughing loudly to get attention, etc). you'll come out a winner in the end no matter how scary it may be to just be you.

i found that out years ago, the hard way...

[NeedGod]

yeah, i guess being oneself is something one should do. i tell people that all the time too when they ask but it sounds so unpractical when someone else says it. gee, is that how i usually sound :eek:

[collegegirl]

You never know.....they may like you for the very thing that you don't like you for. I personally don't like how I sound on the phone, (heard a phone message from me the other day and I made the person erase it). Also, take a look at the girls who you know are fake, and see how many boys they "go through". Also, take a look at the boys that "go through" girls....That should tell you about their character, and the fact that they aren't serious.

[marichino_freedom]

i;ve known plenty of them, too....

[NeedGod]

yeah, but mostly, guys just want to use such girls for small time physical satisfaction

[Christian-Samurai]

and it seems alot of girls want to let them, its an evil spirit that has gotten ahold of these times that is just saying its ok to do these things GOd doesnt care about this as long as your a good person

[NeedGod]

yes, but ostly, these girls are just looking for love and they think they have found it. the thing is, we all look for love, some just look for it in all the wrong places. the only place to find it is under the banner of the blood of Jesus

[marichino_freedom]

my eleven year old neice had a "friend" of the same age who said she couldnt wait to get pregnant and have a baby because she was mature and they werent (mature....hah!) what kind of mom/dad does she have!? there is just something wrong with that

[chocolateismybestfriend]

my eleven year old neice had a "friend" of the same age who said she couldnt wait to get pregnant and have a baby because she was mature and they werent (mature....hah!) what kind of mom/dad does she have!? there is just something wrong with that

Children are no long children in this day and age. No such thing as an innocent mind. There is too much bombardment of filth from the devil, its chucked at us everyday by hollywood and the media

[marichino_freedom]

no kidding! luckily, my sister transfered her to a new school, and she has new friends....hopefully better ones

[JMC_785]

i wanted to ask another thing, how can one tell if a guy is interested in her. you see, a lady and a sister should not ask a guy anything. so i wonder how one should know and not jump to conclusions. also, i wasa wondering how one should react or what one should do after that


Here's a quick run-down.
(You guys be sure to Pile-Drive or DDT me if I don't get this right.)
A guy that likes you 1st of all wants to hang out around you, sometimes you girls make this a little difficult for him though, especially if you're really cliquey and hang out with only girls, so don't be suprised if all he does is be in the background all the time.
He might just be terrified of you too, especially if you're pretty, (100 out of 100 Holy Ghost-filled girls are pretty) so if he's shy you're just gonna have to do the talking sometimes. (Hey, you're a girl, talking is what you're good at, GET WITH IT SISTER!!! :thumbup: ) The best thing to do is make people as comfortable around you as possible, if he's not inclined to jump to conclusions and think you snooty, then he'll be ok, but about 99% of guys are jumpy and skeptical as all get out, so be nice. I'm going to be very cliche and say "Just be yourself!" You don't want this guy to find out at any point that you've been acting a good part just to fall into his good graces. In my very humble opinion, the whole purpose of dating is to find a SUITABLE candidate for marriage. Keep that in mind! If you're pulling a fast one on this guy, you're both gonna end up very unhappy, no matter what happens.

Bear it in mind, more on this subject later!

[All4Jesus]

Interesting :) I've actually learned somethin'

[Blood Washed Bride]

i wanted to ask another thing, how can one tell if a guy is interested in her. you see, a lady and a sister should not ask a guy anything. so i wonder how one should know and not jump to conclusions. also, i [was] wondering how one should react or what one should do after that

I believe it to be a lady's privilege to ask a guy what his intentions are. If hints have been made but there is no clear understanding between the two, then the air needs to be cleared. Otherwise the relationship will become based on presuppositions, which almost always leads to heartache. A true gentleman will understand this.

Also, I really appreciated what JMC said about every Holy Ghost filled sister being beautiful. The world doesn't have the monopoly on authentic beauty - the Bride of Christ does.

:o)

[NeedGod]

thanks people. i also agree with jmc, about the beauty. a good heart shines through the face.

[HotShot53]

Lol, I've heard stories from plenty of girls about how too many wordly guys are attracted to them for their looks... worldly girls just don't realize how much more attractive they would be if they wore skirts and long hair and looked the way girls were ment to look, instead of all fake and made-up. (There have even been scientific tests to show that guys are naturally attracted more to girls with longer hair rather than short hair....)

Plus having the Holy Ghost gives the extra glow that the world will never match :)

[NeedGod]

i feel 10 times more beautiful already. but anyways, i know what you are saying bro, i would feel naked without my hair.

[morning_mist]

wonderful comments from JMC and Hotshots :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:

[NeedGod]

yeah, especially since they are guys, it makes us girls have a bit of hope.

[blessed]

Plus having the Holy Ghost gives the extra glow that the world will never match :)
AMEN to that :D

[Jeni]

this is extremely encouraging to hear...

Here's a problem for you sherlocks....

Suppose a girl is nice to everyone (shock shock kidding) and is approached several times by an annoying guy (in the Message)
he's just one of those guys that doesn't know what he wants...he likes any girl that pays attention to him....but really never has anything important to say.
SO anyhow...she's approached by this guy once...so she's nice to him...(after all, we're all sons and daughters of God right) ...but he approaches again...and before you know it...he is going out of his way to fall into her path (literally).
She has...a stalker. (gasp) She never encouraged it....except that she was nice to him when he spoke to her.

Now tell me oh guru....how does she get rid of this guy without becoming, in his eyes, cruel and heartless?

[strandedisland]

Welllllllllll Miss Jeni.. it seams you do have a problem, unfortunately a conclusion could very easily result in hurt... thats just how it happens. Other than play it off.... tell him. This is coming from me.. if I like a girl that doesnt like me.. I would WANT her to tell me that!! Saves a lot of pain and un-needed stress that could very easily last for years.. making it a whole lot worse. And prayer.. prayer is ALWAYS good!!! :thumbup:

[Jeni]

i didn't say it was meee......

actually..its not. ha. haha. haaa.

anyhow...

[JoeC]

I agree with Joseph... the girl in question should make it clear to the guy how she views their relationship.

This does not mean she has to say something like "HEY BUSTER, get outta my life!!!"

Merely letting telling him that they're just friends is fine - and the sooner the better, as he'll be more likely to get the message if it gets to him before his eyes wax over with gushy feelings.

After the initial "State of our Friendship" address, it will become a lot more simpler. Every time he acts out in a way that only someone who wants more than a simple friendship would act, she can simply remind him that they are just "friends." Eventually he'll either settle for a friendship or get lost.

This is the advice Sister Rebekah LaFontaine gave the sisters at one of our youth Bible studies. It worked for her and I think it a very lady-like way of approaching things.

[HotShot53]

I'd have to agree with the 2 Joes' advice...

Lol, I could almost be like that myself... except that too many girls have been nice to me, and God hasn't said which one to pick, or none of the above ;)

[NeedGod]

yup, that makes three of us in agreement. although it is pretty hard for a girl-especially a nice one- to tell someone off. it is hard to go around breaking hearts. even when done nicely, it hurts. still, it as to be done i guess.

[Jeni]

very true...hard to do.

[NeedGod]

honestly too, i havent got around to putting off some guy who i was going out with when i had gone back into the world. when i told him i was saved now, he said, its ok and insisted we meet. whew, i guess i will have to get around to it some time.

[Babyruth]

Why is it if you are nice to someone, they think you're in love and want to get married? Our parents teach us to be nice, the Bible teaches us to be kind to everyone, we are, and people think it's a sign of love or something like that. I don't get it!

[blessed]

tell me about it i have had guys think that i like them just because im polite... i think its a strange thing to people nowadays to meet someone genuine who actually have manners

[NeedGod]

well, let me advice you all you girls. tell them off. stop being nice. avoid them. thats the only thing that works

[Babyruth]

Yeah, and if you ignore them, they think you're being stuck up and need to be more Christian!

[NeedGod]

some times, we need to do some things. they will realize you were serious. after you tell them and they wont listen, then dont give them your time of day. they dont deserve it. ignore them.

[Babyruth]

I do, don't worry.

[NeedGod]

thats the way to go sis.

[blessed]

ha ha, rofl a guy told me that i have a heart like stone lol lol

[NeedGod]

blessed, considering you dont laugh at my jokes, i am inclined to agree with him :harhar1: anyhow, i better get told that than let someone bug me. lets all go stony girls. not too stony but satony enough. :thumbup:

[vpiper]

I kind of agree with samurai. In my view a girl can get a guy to do anything when she uses a evil powers. Look at the world. How many horrid images to you see on telly mostly involving woman? It's like they run the world. Bro Branham preached a lot on woman-how they were the gods of this evil age. But of course these are worldly girls. We true christian girls are very different.

I choose to use my powers for good

[vpiper]

girl trying to get rid of a guy, tell me if I'm wrong, but could't you have your father or pastor talk to him if the problem is too big?

[A guy]

girl trying to get rid of a guy, tell me if I'm wrong, but could't you have your father or pastor talk to him if the problem is too big?

Well, if a guy really love a sister, only the Lord can remove from him that love if it does not come from him.

Also, it seems to me that sometime girls are prompt to reject a boy without knowing him enough. So for guy that have some problem to be "social" or hide their interest, it is almost impossible to ever know any girl, less marry one.

But on the other hand, if the girl way too long before telling the boy, then it is harder for the boy to forget about the girl.

Well, if the boy is really acting wrong or not even a believer, then I think the girl should be hard...

[blessed]

Hi unknown guy,
i was referring to an unbeliever in my post..but thanks for your post anyway, since you have given us such thoughtful contribution i think its only fair that you join the forum and continue to grace us with your wisdom :D

[blessed]

Well, if a guy really love a sister, only the Lord can remove from him that love if it does not come from him....
That's true

Also, it seems to me that sometime girls are prompt to reject a boy without knowing him enough. So for guy that have some problem to be "social" or hide their interest, it is almost impossible to ever know any girl, less marry one....
Im still thinking on this one...

But on the other hand, if the girl way too long before telling the boy, then it is harder for the boy to forget about the girl....
Im not sure i understand this one

Well, if the boy is really acting wrong or not even a believer, then I think the girl should be hard...
Totally agree...

[NeedGod]

i think a girl should never tell a guy she likes him. it is not her place to do so. i think

[JMG]

i think a girl should never tell a guy she likes him. it is not her place to do so. i think

Yes namwacha it is the guy's place to tell the girl that he likes her.

[NeedGod]

i know. so many girls are doing it nowadays though, even in church.

[HotShot53]

But on the other hand, if the girl way too long before telling the boy, then it is harder for the boy to forget about the girl.


I think what he was meaning here was if the girl waits too long to tell the boy no, once the boy is persuing her...

[NeedGod]

i got that now. i dont like it when girls play all hard to get but some times we girls are just unsure.

[Unregistered]

I Have a question here!wat is the most diplomatic way to avoid an admirer, who after telling them u were only interested in their friendship and not any romantic attachment and still persists!they got feelings for ya, and u have no feelings for them!

[Philippe]

A few suggestions :

:) Pray for him and search the leading of the Lord for you about him.

:blabbermo If, possible talk to him about your point of view (and also listen him) or ask someone else.

:moron: If his attitude toward you is innapropriate, tell him firmly that you don't approve it. Repeat if necessary. Ignore him.

:ranting: Be hard with him.

Well, what will works depends on both the boy and the girl and also the relationship and their past...

[NeedGod]

oh, i like the last one. ha, be hard on him

[AgapZoe]

just wanted to say the brain'(did i say brain?) behind this thread is just great!!!

[NeedGod]

ha, it sure is. :thumbup:

[collegegirl]

Well, fortunately, I have been blessed(?) with not having any admirers (that I know of), and so I haven't had to tell anyone to get lost or anything like that. I don't feel like I am ready for any such commitment as a boyfriend, as wonderful as it might be. I am not ready, and probably won't be for quite some time. And something that people out in the world don't understand is the lifetime commitment thing. I still have things that I want to do, and I when I get married, I plan on dedicating my life to my family. I want to be sure that I am ready to commit my life to culturing a family. Once I get married, unless something happens, we are going to spend the rest of our lives together. I need to be ready emotionally, spiritually, financially, (I want to have a good nest egg to rely on in case there is ever an emergency) and I need to be able to submit myself to the headship of my husband.

[NeedGod]

you know, i am having the biggest guy problem ever. one of my exes even came to church on sunday in a bid to win me over. oh yes, this sunday. and whatmore, now he wants us to link up this weekend to talk. ha, it is so confusing. i cant stop him coming to church but i know his intentions arent good. but the pastor preached on that this sunday so he was so uncomfortable. he asked if i had told the pastor beforehand

[HotShot53]

It's amazing how preachers will preach something that will leave people asking afterwords if they knew about it before they preached... God knew, and that was enough :)

[JoeC]

Indeed. I've often pondered that question myself - but you're right about the important thing.

[NeedGod]

in fact the strange thing is the pastor went off topic to talk about that and then he kept saying he would come back on topic but God just kept taking him that way. isnt it great how these things work?

[Flyboy]

sad thing is im 224 and still aint ready to be married..of course that is unless there's some lovely lass that is willing to support me till i can make some financial gains of my own..:cool: then again theres more to gettin married than jus supportin a wife..lets take a vote~How many of u really think im mature enough??:rofl:

[JoeC]

Well, if you're not mature after two-hundred and twenty-four years on this planet, I'd say there's little hope for you. :undecided:

[FreeAtLast]

LOL Joe! :rofl:

[NeedGod]

whew! you sure are old flyboy. but thing is, i think they degenerate by that age joe, so you can excuse him. lol lol. flyboy, anyhow seriously, being rich is not what you should aspire before you marry. in fact, if you start out simple, you will at least be sure she loved you for you and not your money. what more, you will at least be sure she wont leave you when bad times come if you finally do make it big.
if love is all about money, then i dont want it. i want true love. in fact, i shy away from marriying a rich guy. i will be so insecure. i want a guy who we can start really small together and when we finally get there, its a shared victory. :yay:

[desertroses]

whew! you sure are old flyboy. but thing is, i think they degenerate by that age joe, so you can excuse him. lol lol. flyboy, anyhow seriously, being rich is not what you should aspire before you marry. in fact, if you start out simple, you will at least be sure she loved you for you and not your money. what more, you will at least be sure she wont leave you when bad times come if you finally do make it big.
if love is all about money, then i dont want it. i want true love. in fact, i shy away from marriying a rich guy. i will be so insecure. i want a guy who we can start really small together and when we finally get there, its a shared victory. :yay:


Well said namwacha, I totally agree with you!!!

[blessed]

lol good one Joe, i personally don't think that you are ready yet Flyboy, get a stable job first before even thinking about getting married

[SpamBoy]

@flyboy - get a job, get a hircut
@blessed - you sig... she who lives by the tank dies by the tank :laugh:

the important thing is to be ready - TOTALLY ready
I thought I was ready...and found out differently :012: after leaving my :chris: days and becoming a land lubber - gett'in rid of my accent "avast this is a good meal me scarlet" but not before my wife :beat: me....

Bro Burley Williams has great insight into "when your ready"..I should review the tape and type up the script. :laugh:

-SpamBoy
"Ready of not here I spam....."

[Flyboy]

wheeew guess i am gettin old..my marryin days are already long over:undecided:

[JoeC]

Marrying after financially securing yourself makes for less stress & tension in the marriage. I see what you are saying about the shared vistory... and that would be nice, but I'm not sure if I want to risk it.

[HotShot53]

financially secure and rich aren't the same thing... I'm financially secure, but I'd be willing to trade it all for 1/10th of the taxes some of our clients pay....

[JMG]

sad thing is im 224 and still aint ready to be married..of course that is unless there's some lovely lass that is willing to support me till i can make some financial gains of my own..:cool: then again theres more to gettin married than jus supportin a wife..lets take a vote~How many of u really think im mature enough??:rofl:

Well since you ask if we think you are mature enough, then no, you are not mature enough. :chef

[JoeC]

That's not good logic. I might ask people if they think I'm athletic... but the mere existence of self-doubt would not be a sufficient condition upon which to determine that I am not athletic.

[JMG]

Well, for thine info, no depth of thought was put into the reply. Of course one could not infer how mature FlyBoy is without getting to know him better.
:chef

[NeedGod]

financially secure and rich aren't the same thing... I'm financially secure, but I'd be willing to trade it all for 1/10th of the taxes some of our clients pay....
i think only hotshot got me here. financially secure is a good thing. my dad married my mum when he had a job but they were not rich(and still arent) but they grew together and progressed together. so now my dad keeps saying that he wouldnt have got where he is without her. marriage is not about having too much money. its about loving someone, wanting to spend a life with her, working hard to get enough money to support the family(not too much), then marrying. why, i think the ups and downs of marriage might be taxing on the marriage but wouldnt all you brothers love to have a wife who eats air burgers with you when there is no money and still wake up in the morning and tell you you mean the world to her and she thinks you are her hero, simply because she knows you try hard for her and the family. remember how when the prophet wanted to marry sis Hope, he didnt have much to offer her but he promised to work hard to provide for her. why, if my husband got up early and went out to look for work, worked hard, then came back with two pence in the evening, i would still think he is my hero.
fine, maybe i dont know coz i havent been there, but when my dad was fired from a good job because he would not steal and his boss wanted a junior who would be corrupt with him(praise God), and we came down so hard in life our family appreciated him more and my mum keeps saying she felt his love even more then, coz he did everything.
so, try your hardest to get rich before marrying as it is a good thing, but thats not all its about.

[jowaweru]

Brethren,i need help.especially from you sisters.and thanks Esther for this thread that you've opened.you can trust me to post many comments and questions.On to my question- how do you differentiate between a sister who would make a great friend from one who would make a great partner?considering that a great wife would first and formost have to be your friend and yet there are instances in which some of the relationships would go sore if the friends become a couple.

[HotShot53]

Brethren,i need help.especially from you sisters.and thanks Esther for this thread that you've opened.you can trust me to post many comments and questions.On to my question- how do you differentiate between a sister who would make a great friend from one who would make a great partner?considering that a great wife would first and formost have to be your friend and yet there are instances in which some of the relationships would go sore if the friends become a couple.

Lol, I and most other single guys would love to know the answer to that too ;) And since I don't know what else to say, I'll just say to pray double hard about it....

[AndrewMichael]

Once you see that the girl is right with the Word, and you're heart is right before God, wait for the revelation. Only you can know when it really happens, but fasting and praying would be probably the best thing for you to do brother.

[already bought]

Brethren,i need help.especially from you sisters.and thanks Esther for this thread that you've opened.you can trust me to post many comments and questions.On to my question- how do you differentiate between a sister who would make a great friend from one who would make a great partner?considering that a great wife would first and formost have to be your friend and yet there are instances in which some of the relationships would go sore if the friends become a couple.


Ok from a girl's point of view! If I really understood what you were trying to say.
I think sometimes you can be really close friends with some one but yet they don't have the quilitys that you are looking for. And sometimes great friendships if they did begin to date don't always work out because they before just thought of each other as freinds and close friends.
If it dose not work out in the end it can make things weird for both. I know some people that went out and it didn't work out have a hard time talking to each other. And as close friends I think that could happen more easyly.
I don't know what I'm saying if it really makes sence and wellmaybe you can explain it a bit more

[fredmaina]

thats one of the hardest questions to answer,but we have always been told that the distance between your problems and their solutions is the same as the distance between your knees and the ground, so pray hard and keep trusting in God and like our pastor always tells us, when you are looking for a life partner and you are living right with God, YOU SHALL KNOW HER OR HIM.God always makes a way even where there seems to be no way.

[wiesner8300]

i agree to alot of you, from my point of view being a guy, god should be the most important part of my life, and it is. that i what i look for in a woman, is god, and of course praying and reading the word is always important before you make a decision about anything, including dating.

[joris]

that i what i look for in a woman, is god:)
but how? ... at the moment I wouldn't know well how to... I don't know; to use the words of a preacher - how is it glorifying God? I don't well see that
well except for when regarding, accepting "her" as a special gift from God to you (and you are that for her -- can't imagine someone regarding me as a gift from God at all :unsure:), as... the joy and all, as to be the point for God to be glorified in it

guess I don't understand such things well

[Babyruth]

You're not alone. Don't worry about it. :)

[AlanaH]

Yeah, no kidding. None of us really have the answer...maybe the reason why most of us are still single?:think:

[Babyruth]

Haha! Very true. Though, some of us do want to be single. But, no more about that, in fact, forget I said anything. :chris:

[HotShot53]

Haha! Very true. Though, some of us do want to be single. But, no more about that, in fact, forget I said anything. :chris:

Don't worry, it seems most people on here do forget that ;)

[jordancpeterson]

Yeah, no kidding. None of us really have the answer...maybe the reason why most of us are still single?:think:

Might have something to do with being young. And also everyone on here has time (because when you get married you don't have as much time).

Haha! Very true. Though, some of us do want to be single. But, no more about that, in fact, forget I said anything. :chris:

I thought we talked about this already... {shakes head...} girls... ;-)

[AlanaH]

Might have something to do with being young. And also everyone on here has time (because when you get married you don't have as much time).



I thought we talked about this already... {shakes head...} girls... ;-)

Everyone has time...hmm. I hardly have time for ME, let alone a family too...

[Babyruth]

Don't worry, it seems most people on here do forget that ;)
What do you mean?

I thought we talked about this already... {shakes head...} girls...
We did, hence in fact, forget I said anything.

[HotShot53]

What do you mean?

I meant that most people on here still say "just wait" to you, and ignore the fact that some of us do want to be single

[jordancpeterson]

Oh brother! You are in the same boat DJ??? We've got to have a talk!

[Babyruth]

Who are you talking to? Me? I am not "in the same boat as DJ." Whatever that boat is.

[HotShot53]

Oh brother! You are in the same boat DJ??? We've got to have a talk!

Lol, no... you should know better than that ;) I was quoting ruth, not saying it myself ;)

[collegegirl]

I for one wouldn't want to say single unless the Lord truly desired it.

[Babyruth]

No comment. :D Actually, I have a comment, since I commented by saying "No comment." :D

[joris]

I guess, each time I come across this thread I think it's about problems most/many guys have... but it doesn't seem to be about that at all

[AlanaH]

I for one wouldn't want to say single unless the Lord truly desired it.

Same here, but on the other hand, I am not walking around with a big butterfly net either.:) Which is a good thing..

No comment. :D Actually, I have a comment, since I commented by saying "No comment." :D

Hey Ruth, have you heard Ryan H's argument about that? Basically all of your lines with a whole bunch more of them. It's hilarious.

[Babyruth]

I guess, each time I come across this thread I think it's about problems most/many guys have... but it doesn't seem to be about that at all
Yeah, it's way off topic!

Hey Ruth, have you heard Ryan H's argument about that? Basically all of your lines with a whole bunch more of them. It's hilarious.
No I haven't. But, he's doing a good job of staying single. :D

[AlanaH]

No I haven't. But, he's doing a good job of staying single. :D

Yes, this is very true...no girl is good enough for him...<sigh>

[Babyruth]

Yes, this is very true...no girl is good enough for him...<sigh>
What kind of a sigh was that? :think:

[joris]

Yes, this is very true...no girl is good enough for him...<sigh>that's uhm; I don't like the sound of that one

[blessed]

Is that a I wish I was sigh? :think:

[HotShot53]

Is that a I wish I was sigh? :think:

Sure sounded like it could have been...

[Babyruth]

That's what I was thinking. ALANA!!!!!!!!!!!! DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!!!! NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[AlanaH]

Hmmm....
I'll never tell...;-)

No, seriously, Ruth knows that it was over a long time ago....right, Ruth?
<fingers crossed>

[Babyruth]

I did. But after that sigh, I don't know. :D

[AlanaH]

Oh, hush, you definitely know it's waaay over...

[Babyruth]

Do I?.... :D

[collegegirl]

Back to guy problems.


The original subject. Was it girls having problems with guys, or guys just having problems?

[HotShot53]

Back to guy problems.


The original subject. Was it girls having problems with guys, or guys just having problems?

Ask yourself... you started the thread ;)

[AlanaH]

:) Haha....nice one...:)

[collegegirl]

See how far off topic it was.

And it was late at night.

Problems WITH guys.

Speaking of that, this summer has been the one for guys...I have had a couple of guys ask me out, and several interested...one that was almost starting to get on my nerves, and we had just met, and he started gravitating towards me, and I started walking to the other side of the room, or between people to avoid him. Was nice to him, but he was starting to get to me...

[blessed]

Strange things happened........

In church i turned to the side and saw this younger brother like staring at me...boy that was weird.

Then a couple nights ago one of my friends yelled at me "why don't you get married"...sheesh what did I do to deserve that, and why is that bothering him.

He then calls me back, couple days later and somehow between the conversation "you really should think about getting married, you are getting older you know"

:cry: he was supposed to be my friend

Guys and their problems....:ng_thumbd

[joris]

blessed... aww :unsure: that's so not nice that was said
Guys and their problems....:ng_thumbd
but what do you mean just there?

[blessed]

Well obviously something must be bothering him and he is just taking it out on me.

[remaining_anonymous]

Yes, this is very true...no girl is good enough for him...<sigh>
I was.... :)

[blessed]

Ooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I wonder who that was?

[Christian-Samurai]

did you ask him what was making him say these things to you?

[JoeC]

Who's Ryan H?

[Christian-Samurai]

your the Peerless Polymath you should know all these things by now :D

[AlanaH]

We'll see who's good enough when he actually gets married....

[blessed]

did you ask him what was making him say these things to you?

No. Should I?

[blessed]

We'll see who's good enough when he actually gets married....

hmmm................ are we venting here?

[collegegirl]

Who's Ryan H?
:y10: ................

[AlanaH]

Collegegirl knows.....I can tell....

And no, I'm not venting, I'm simply reminding whoever that anonymous person is that if they WERE good enough, why is he still single and apparently staying that way for awhile? Though I do have my ideas about who that person really is....

[blessed]

Oh Ok. ...........

[jordancpeterson]

Heh. No comment.

[God'schild]

no comment

[HotShot53]

I hate being so out of the loop :(

[jordancpeterson]

Me too. But it's sure fun being in the loop! ;)

[Babyruth]

We'll see who's good enough when he actually gets married....
No need to get so upset. I don't think it was a good idea bringing him up. This is what I mean about mentioning people's names. I doubt he would like it very much to see this. Obviously the person who posted that was just trying to be funny, or seeing what kind of a reaction they could get out of us. Also, they could have been good enough for him, but what if he wasn't good enough for them? Or, not the right person for him. He is a nice person, and God obviously has plans for him. We aren't God, we don't make decisions, and we shouldn't get upset when we aren't in them. God has someone for him, and no one is good enough for him unless it is that 1 person God has chosen.

So, my advice, forget this was said, and move on. God is in control, He has plans, He knows what's going on. So, let Him move, and don't get upset if He makes you take a major u-turn.

[AlanaH]

I am not upset in the least bit about the previous subject, but I am a little upset at how this whole thing was so blown out of context. It started with an innocent little question to you, you replied and one week later, it's turned into what it is now.
And I could expound further, but apparently some people want to be discreet while at the same time are deeply hurting other people's rep by pointing fingers at them. But I will say no more...
So see you tomorrow night.

[blessed]

Ok what's that about?

Feel free to PM me.

[AlanaH]

Don't even bother...it's already gone way too far enough as it is without getting anyone else involved. And I'm not joking.
Sorry blessed, but some things are just better left unsaid.

[jordancpeterson]

Me too. But it's sure fun being in the loop! ;)

For the record I know nothing. I was just trying to lighten things up. Sorry if I caused any problems.

[AlanaH]

It's ok, I don't think you had any part in it. Even if you did, it's all in the past now. The only problem I'm having is trying to keep it in the past...

[God'schild]

It's ok, I don't think you had any part in it. Even if you did, it's all in the past now. The only problem I'm having is trying to keep it in the past...

that's a hard thing to do is keeping the things that belong in the past in the past and not always bringing them up..

I know what you mean..

[BroTrevor]

I suggest closing this thread.


and after that...


Big group hug ok? Come on... everyone... big group hug... yeah yeah, Brothers group and a sisters group.

and stay there till we all love one another like we should ok? Pray for one another...

uhm... like Bro Branham said...

CHRIST.IS.THE.MYSTERY.OF.GOD.REVEALED_ JEFF.IN V-3 N-7 SUNDAY_ 63-0728
13-1 That's right. Stay right together. If the brother, you think he's a little wrong, or the sister, say, "Lord, don't let me ever have the root of bitterness spring up, 'cause it'll--it'll affect him, and it'll take the Christ right out of my life." That poison acids of malice, and jealousy, and hatred, that'll just take the Holy Spirit right away from you. It'll run Him from the Tabernacle here. It'll kill the Spirit of God or drive it away from here, hurt your pastor; it'll do everything. See? Don't you do that. You just wax that much closer together. Draw up the... Take the buckle, as the brother testified (a minister here the other night) about having a buckle (seeing it in a vision). Just... That buckles on the whole armor of God; just put it on, tighten up, move right up close to one another. Love one another anyhow. Talk nice about one another. Say nice things about one another, and then God will bless you.


So again, I suggest this thread isn't doing anyone any good. Wouldn't hurt to close it.

[joris]

I suggest closing this thread.no problemBig group hug ok? Come on... everyone... big group hug... yeah yeah, Brothers group and a sisters group.oh well; fine by me... but come on, sisters are human to, right?:y10:
(oh maybe I'm overstating that "sister" thing? I'm not using that word all the time; anyway I'm not getting emotional trouble of writing the words "me hugs" as... well it's just words; just a nice thing, not... and anyway; girls aren't that bad to hug you know;
oh well I'm not married after all, maybe... well if it'd hurt someone really then better not hug)

[BroTrevor]

no problemoh well; fine by me... but come on, sisters are human to, right?:y10:
(oh maybe I'm overstating that "sister" thing? I'm not using that word all the time; anyway I'm not getting emotional trouble of writing the words "me hugs" as... well it's just words; just a nice thing, not... and anyway; girls aren't that bad to hug you know;
oh well I'm not married after all, maybe... well if it'd hurt someone really then better not hug)

It's best if brothers and sisters don't get all huggy. We don't want to give the devil and inch, or a doorway to come in and fight us on.

[joris]

what doorway? :y10:
I think to me there's more of me opening a doorway if I tend to be seperate from others (which is a tendency by feelings I have to struggle) - in this context, not hugging would open a doorway rather than actually hugging ;)

[BroTrevor]

what doorway? :y10:
I think to me there's more of me opening a doorway if I tend to be seperate from others (which is a tendency by feelings I have to struggle) - in this context, not hugging would open a doorway rather than actually hugging ;)

there are ways to be close, without having to touch and risk the rising of the physical aspects of opposite genders.

[Babyruth]

I agree on closing this thread. Thanks Bro. T. You are awesome!

[God'schild]

i think it's time we close it as well..

[HotShot53]

ok, then it's now closed