Are we too quick...?

[Angellica]

I was reading some posts on here one that struck me was Br. Trev talking about how he got married to Sr. Trev and how he was in a reletionship that wasn't so fun....( Sorry I can't remember the post, have read a lot of them today;)) Well anyway, and I happen to have a few examples from my friends and those that are close to me. It's gotten me thinking if we are just not too quick to get into relationships that are never meant to be? Like you find most married people have a story of one they first thought they loved before they got married to whomever they are married to now!:rofl: I have a friend who told me she was into an abusive relationship before the guy she currently is with now ( Says it feels so good now!) My elder sister was in a bad relationship before getting married to her Mr. Right. Do you notice a trend? Was this the way it was supposed to be?:confused:

Open for discussion....

[joris]

I guess that may be, because, people are lonely, get "in love" or "infatuated", and jump into that relationship, with someone they don't know well, and... yea; like that it's can be a real wild jump.
(And yea, that being "infatuated" can be pushing hard to get closer)

Was this the way it was supposed to be? No... world is getting colder, people getting more lonely, and more hungry for love -- and less can give.:(
(oh, more reason for greater revelation of Fathers loving heart)

[AgapZoe]

I guess that may be, because, people are lonely, get "in love" or "infatuated", and jump into that relationship, with someone they don't know well, and... yea; like that it's can be a real wild jump.
(And yea, that being "infatuated" can be pushing hard to get closer)

Was this the way it was supposed to be? No... world is getting colder, people getting more lonely, and more hungry for love -- and less can give.:(
(oh, more reason for greater revelation of Fathers loving heart)


wow I agreee with Joris here. Yea, we are more thirsty for love, not knowing that the only Waters that we can quench our thirst of Love by are those that spring from the Greatest Fountain...The Lord Jesus Christ, the Living Waters of Love!
:)

[fredmaina]

mabe God wants us to meet a few wrong people so that when we meet the right one we shall certainly appreciate

[HotShot53]

With all the billions of people in the world, I'm not surprised we find the wrong one's first... I am surprised we eventually find the right one. Only God can do that...

[Angelo]

Yeah, and the good thing about it is, that, when you're near that right person, and the encounter has begun, anticipate how God will comfirm it with both parties which makes it so sweet, a heavenly, sacred ordination.

[AgapZoe]

O SURE Angelo...anticipation of confirmation to both parties....once He does, it's the sweetest thing ever...

The hard part sets in when you have to wait for quite some time be4 the other party gets a confirmation, lol! But somehow, if it's him or her, you wont be stressed about it, no matter how far, near, how close you are with him/her, or not..nothing matters at all...as long as your faith in God is what made Him show you that person, trust Him, He'll bring it to pass in His own time, making all things beautiful! :-) God is but too great!!!