Dream Guy!!!! [Archive] - Youth Quake Forums

Christian-Samurai

11-17-2005, 08:34 PM

WELLLL, being a guy, I dont exactly have a dream guy, but I do believe that there are dream partners, I am not sure if you will always meet them, but I have met my dream girl here on the net, She is everything I have dreamt about i can tell you that, She is smart, funny, very beautiful, silly, she lives in the land I have always wanted to visit, she is a daughter of God, :) I dont know about you but she sounds pretty dreamy to me *blush*

blessed

11-17-2005, 08:41 PM

comments from anyone else

Christian-Samurai

11-17-2005, 08:42 PM

meanie, *sobbs uncontrolably*

FreeAtLast

11-18-2005, 07:41 AM

LOL Blessed - that was funny --- comments from anyone else! hehehehe no offense Samurai. But YOUR opinion we know quite well by now!!! :harhar1: :p

hmmm, not sure about the "dream-guy" blessed is talking about. I believe that there is a Mr. Right for you (if you are meant to get married) – but that doesn´t mean that he is exactly like your dreams. I believe if God gives you the right guy he will be just perfect for you. And God sure knows best!

blessed

11-18-2005, 10:13 AM

That is what i was thinking about is Mr. Right the one u have in your dreams, cause as my friend always tells me if u want to make God laugh tell him your plans for your life :D usually he has something different planned out for u. I think if it is God intention for someone to get married it may not exactly be the dream person u had in your mind since a teenager but it will be the person whom God knows can be there for you and lift you spiritually

collegegirl

11-18-2005, 10:44 AM

Well, there are things that I would prefer in a guy, the obvious, a strong Christian, loves the Lord, but I don't think that it is wrong to ask the Lord for some specifics. I would like the guy I marry to love children, to be athletic, etc. There is the "dream" guy, who is like...everything, and then there is the "ideal" guy, which is pretty close,more like real life. I think that the ideal guy is going to be closer to the one you marry than the "dream guy". *swoon*

Christian-Samurai

11-18-2005, 01:24 PM

Yeah yeah, you ppl soooo mean to me. Here I will tell you this and maybe it will say something about this or not, and its not about Hui, Its about my mom, :) MY mom said to God, Lord I want a guy with brown eyes and brown hair, and guess what, Poof there is my dad :) God gave her what she asked for, she didnt say if she dreamt about him though lol

JoeC

11-18-2005, 02:27 PM

I would like the guy I marry to love children, to be athletic, etc. There is the "dream" guy, who is like...everything, and then there is the "ideal" guy, which is pretty close,more like real life. I think that the ideal guy is going to be closer to the one you marry than the "dream guy". *swoon*

Could you girls give exactly the traits you would expect from a dream guy v.s an ideal guy? I'd be interested.

collegegirl

11-18-2005, 02:29 PM

You really wanna know? :D

Christian-Samurai

11-18-2005, 05:43 PM

Well I think thats why he asked duuuhhhh LOL

blessed

11-18-2005, 08:00 PM

The ideal guy.....
well in my case maturity stands high, i've met some pretty immature guys who just annoyes the living daylight out of me, he must love the Lord and believes firmly in the message, i would prefer someone who has grown up in the message or at least 5 years cause i've seen ppl come and go. He must be ahletic or at least close to it :D, he must really lllllllllloooooooovvvvvveee kids, have a good job, or at least a stable one,must have a good sense of humour,can handle stress very well, is not a finger pointer but a prayer warrior, must be taller than me ( that is a definite requirement), must be understanding cause we girls have our up days and our down days....anyone else feel free to enlighten our bros :D

the dream guy welll....the count of monte cristo:D

collegegirl

11-19-2005, 11:57 AM

Well I wasn't going to respond if you weren't serious.

Ideal:

A strong christian, I liked the part about the prayer warrior, (mind if I take that to add to my list? :D) A good job, enough to support a family; has to love kids, athletic, fun, a good sense of humor, DEFINATELY taller than me!!! Likes traveling, likes the country (as in vs the city), Someone who I could lean on, and strengthen at the same time. I would prefer that he has a sense of romance, a good taste in clothes, hair, and jewelry, (my brother is like that, he knows what looks good on himself and also what looks good on me) somewhat of an artist because I am an artist, and so is my dad, and we can understand eachother that way. Definately an understanding person, someone who knows how to mix steel and velvet. I can't have them too much older than me, just by a few years. I would like him to be a mix of my dad, my older brother, and himself.

Dream:

Let's not go there, please. :D

MarieLenora

11-19-2005, 02:12 PM

I have to agree with Samurai on this one... because I really do think God matches your desires to the man/woman you're supposed to marry one day. I know he did for my mom, and my sister.

collegegirl

11-20-2005, 01:56 PM

I agree with that too. God will match you up with the person you are supposed to be with, and there is nothing wrong with asking for a few particulars, I believe.

blessed

11-21-2005, 12:15 PM

Hmm....i just say Lord u know what i have need of.

collegegirl

11-21-2005, 12:28 PM

Yeah, but sometimes I think that He likes us to ask for specific, not just say Lord, you know what I need, please provide it. (kinda generic). :)

JoeC

11-21-2005, 01:10 PM

It's amazing how many of these "Ideal Guy" characteristics mentioned I can attribute to myself. :D

Ahem... perhaps I have some vanity in me. :)

Anyhow, collegegirl. Why don't you want to go into your "drem guy"? Is it just to personal - or just to fantastic?

collegegirl

11-21-2005, 01:29 PM

Is it just to personal - or just to fantastic?
Both. LOL :D

FreeAtLast

11-21-2005, 01:45 PM

my my my
this is getting interesting!!!!!! ;)

and Joe you´ve said it yourself: """"It's amazing how many of these "Ideal Guy" characteristics mentioned I can attribute to myself."""

my my my
what else is there left to say!?!?! :bigsmile:

Christian-Samurai

11-21-2005, 02:03 PM

Hmmmm, Free, you seem more intersted in this than Collegegirl hmmmmm interesting heh maybe you are eyeing the big Joe for yourself ?? heh heh heh

collegegirl

11-21-2005, 02:06 PM

The big Joe had better watch out, here comes FreeAtLast. :D

FreeAtLast

11-21-2005, 02:07 PM

dont think so Samurai. I am way too old. I could be his mom! (nearly) hahahaha

FreeAtLast

11-21-2005, 02:08 PM

nice try Collegegirl! didnt work though!!!
YOU were the one screaming about your age .... and so on.... and so on..... :harhar1:

Christian-Samurai

11-21-2005, 02:13 PM

Joe didnt list his requirements, maybe he thinks with age comes great beauty eh??

FreeAtLast

11-21-2005, 02:17 PM

lol Samurai.
instead of supporting me on this one. If you had opened eyes you´d couldnt miss it. Instead of that you are trying to mislead ppl...
my my my :harhar1:

Christian-Samurai

11-21-2005, 02:24 PM

what??? me??? hahah no way, just messing with ya heh besides college girl is still to young to be getting hooked up with any one yet, esspecially a guy like joe lol

blessed

11-22-2005, 10:58 AM

isint Joe 18, then he is to young to be thinking about getting hooked up

JoeC

11-22-2005, 03:20 PM

isint Joe 18, then he is to young to be thinking about getting hooked up

"here, here" & Amen!

... and Joe you´ve said it yourself: """"It's amazing how many of these "Ideal Guy" characteristics mentioned I can attribute to myself."""

my my my
what else is there left to say!?!?! :bigsmile:

In that comment I was pointing to the interesting human trait of attirbuting good traits to yourself when people describe them.

It's kinda like when you start telling a person what you think their personality type is (e.g laid back, intense, intellectual, thoughtful, etc.). You're just telling them neutral traits and your perception of them. Not even trying to compliment them. And they're just getting their head bigger and bigger... because if you're on the money, they feel that you are complementing them because they peceive their traits as good things - because it's them!

Anyhow, like I said. It's kinda like it, but not really. Just an interesting observation...

blessed

11-22-2005, 06:28 PM

Yeah, but sometimes I think that He likes us to ask for specific, not just say Lord, you know what I need, please provide it. (kinda generic). :)

Welll then let me see loves the lord with all his heart, tall,handsome,athletic,knows the definition of wife,romantic,financially stable,got his own place (no disrespect but im not living with the inlaws neither are we moving in with my parents)

Please feel free to help me out here collegegirl before i say amen.

Christian-Samurai

11-22-2005, 06:30 PM

I live in a duplex, my parents live on one side and i and my brother on the other, does this count as not living with your parents?? or??

JoeC

11-22-2005, 07:16 PM

So why do all the girls want an athletic guy? It is so in every case we've had so far.

Does this mean he has to be good at sports - or just in good physical shape?

Christian-Samurai

11-22-2005, 07:18 PM

His abs must be cut with stone and his eyes more blue than the sky and his smile must be a brighter than the sun and he must beable to pick the girl up with one pinky finger, we are so SOL Joe :(

blessed

11-22-2005, 07:21 PM

His abs must be cut with stone and his eyes more blue than the sky and his smile must be a brighter than the sun and he must beable to pick the girl up with one pinky finger, we are so SOL Joe :(
Good in physical shape and healthy, the six pack will work but it is not necessary..samauri what in the world are u describing there......superman

But seriously a healthy person does count, he must be able to beat me at a game of basketball or at least try:D

Christian-Samurai

11-22-2005, 07:23 PM

Well I am SUPER if you didnt notice before and I am a MAN sooo hehehe

blessed

11-22-2005, 07:25 PM

*rolls eyes* :drool:

marichino_freedom

11-22-2005, 07:25 PM

i dont mind a little flab....

Christian-Samurai

11-22-2005, 07:30 PM

so the marichino speaks up, and you just rolling your eyes sis cause you checking all my SUPER muscles heh

blessed

11-22-2005, 07:31 PM

i guess when it comes to it, for me the guy must love the Lord as much as i do and even more... and that eliminated most of the guys i have met so far except for one guy who i met at a wedding but have never seen him since

marichino_freedom

11-22-2005, 07:31 PM

ewwwwwww....NO!

:tongue:

blessed

11-22-2005, 07:34 PM

so the marichino speaks up, and you just rolling your eyes sis cause you checking all my SUPER muscles heh
Did u take your pills tonight samauri

Christian-Samurai

11-22-2005, 07:38 PM

steriods??? HA i dont need them, besides I am not the only one showing off LOL http://drupal.yqnews.org/modules/gallery/gallery2/v/members/JoeC/grad/DSCF5757.jpg.html
So there :harhar1:

marichino_freedom

11-22-2005, 07:38 PM

you call that showing off ben? puh-lease....you could do better than that

:harhar1:

blessed

11-22-2005, 07:43 PM

i was referring to the ones that keep u on the sane side:D

Christian-Samurai

11-22-2005, 07:45 PM

well in that case, I only take those in the study hall area, the rest of the areas are just for the fun of it

collegegirl

11-22-2005, 09:29 PM

So why do all the girls want an athletic guy? It is so in every case we've had so far.

Does this mean he has to be good at sports - or just in good physical shape?
Both. See, us sisters play sports too. I, personally, wouldn't want someone to just sit around the house reading a book. That is all fine and good, and there are days just to do that. I enjoy riding bikes, taking walks. I would like to try skiing, riding, different and new rollercoasters. I am kinda athletic and very active. If he's not in shape, then he is not going to want to go ride a horse, go hiking or canoeing. I don't want a spare tire for a husband.:D I would want someone like my brother.

JoeC

11-22-2005, 10:08 PM

JoeC

11-22-2005, 10:11 PM

you call that showing off ben? puh-lease....you could do better than that

:harhar1:

oouuch... ego shrinkage is painful

JoeC

11-22-2005, 10:12 PM

collegegirl

11-23-2005, 12:31 PM

Ah yes... you're brother. I distinctly remember being intimidated my his musculature at the Men's Meeting's when I was 14.

Anyhow, when I said good at sports - I meant like natural talent. You seem to be speaking of someone that just enjoys playing and is in reasonable shape. Or am I wrong? Is it the football captain you want? Or the guy that just loves to play sports in general?
Puleeze! He wasn't THAT musculature at the men's meetings. :D

As for the others, if he has a natural talent, than he is going to enjoy playing sports. Definately someone who enjoys playing and is in reasonable shape.

JoeC

11-23-2005, 04:02 PM

Hey, muscles look bigger when you're fourteen.

Anyhow, about my question to blessed...

blessed

11-23-2005, 06:27 PM

So what method do you use to determine if a guy loves the Lord as much as you do?

Well im a very observant person i notice everything....you can tell by his interest in things of the Lord, his agreement with the word brought forth by the prophet...whether he tries to justify everything that he wants to do or if he says Lord let thy will be done even if it is not what i want. Let me see......i guess it boils down to obedience to the word.

Oh and another qualification to the ideal that i forgot..this one really slipped me he must love music...this is a must

collegegirl

11-23-2005, 07:26 PM

Oh and another qualification to the ideal that i forgot..this one really slipped me he must love music...this is a must
Totally!!! I love music, and I love the piano, and I couldn't stand it if I wasn't able to use the talents that the Lord gave me for my own house.

And I agree, once again, with blessed. Also, another factor: he has to go through my dad first. I would trust my dad to pick someone for me wisely. If he wouldn't want me to see someone, then there is a good reason. It might hurt, but dads are wise, and they understand the intentions of the guy better than the girl would. I love my dad, and he loves me, and I know that he would never let anything bad happen to me if he could prevent it.

marichino_freedom

11-23-2005, 07:37 PM

I agree with the music thing totally.....but he has to be kind and funny and smart and independant (in more ways than one) and have a good sense of humor and FUN!!!!!!

blessed

11-24-2005, 01:23 PM

That's right Marichino humour is a good thing...especially in marriage

morning_mist

11-24-2005, 01:28 PM

yes humour is definitely good!

Christian-Samurai

11-24-2005, 01:31 PM

WHOOOT I got one down lol, i guess the rest will come later :D

morning_mist

11-24-2005, 01:32 PM

one down for what?

Christian-Samurai

11-24-2005, 01:32 PM

i am kinda funny sometimes :D

JoeC

11-24-2005, 02:07 PM

Does this mean he has to be musical, or just appreciate music?

CalledOut

11-25-2005, 03:06 AM

musical talent not required here....but i would want him to TRY

marichino_freedom

11-25-2005, 03:11 AM

just a note...that last post was actually me....calledout didnt log out

blessed

11-25-2005, 10:56 AM

uh ok what's the relation between you and called out

blessed

11-25-2005, 10:57 AM

why are u posting under called out name, are u a fictious character made up by samauri to get into the girls section

Christian-Samurai

11-25-2005, 10:59 AM

Calledout is my sister and marichino is a friend of my brother who always hangs out here

blessed

11-25-2005, 11:01 AM

hmmmm im watching you :2ar15: :cool:

JoeC

11-25-2005, 11:28 AM

Anybody else care to answer the musical queston on pg 6?

blessed

11-25-2005, 01:12 PM

i would prefer one that is musical

morning_mist

11-25-2005, 03:38 PM

i would prefer one who can carry a tune and knows how to play a guitar :)

JoeC

11-25-2005, 05:34 PM

great... there's no hope for me :cry:

morning_mist

11-25-2005, 05:48 PM

well there is still hope for you yet...you can learn playing a guitar and since there is just about a few of us girls who post in this forum....let us hope that others will still post and have their preferences as well :D

JoeC

11-25-2005, 08:50 PM

I already tried learning the guitar. I'd much rather listen to music than attempt replicating it myself. :smiley_vi I have my own ways to quiet my spirit. :anglewing

collegegirl

11-26-2005, 10:39 AM

To play music, you kinda want to appreciate music. I would like them to atleast appreciate music. It would be nice if he could play music so that we could play to gether, or that he could serenade me. :smiley_vi :D But if not, that's okay. I personally would much rather that if he did play music, that he played a different instrument, so that he wouldn't be ridicule or have a better-than-you attitude when it comes to being able to play the piano. But I wouldn't be able to handle not being able to play my music, or have someone appreciate it with me.

Christian-Samurai

01-12-2006, 02:34 PM

I love music and I dont play an instrument but i do have one, my instrument is my heart singing right along with me when I praise God for all he has done for me :) for me thats good enough

Mr Cross

01-12-2006, 02:44 PM

Perfect is spelled C-r-o-s-s. Need I say more? :P

blessed

01-12-2006, 03:59 PM

i try to play a piano, it would be nice to meet someone who can play the guitar or sing that would be an awesome combination

All4Jesus

01-12-2006, 06:40 PM

I can sing!!!! :) A gift from God. I just let everything that is within me out and there comes the big voice. Cool huh! * la la la la la! *

All4Jesus

01-12-2006, 06:42 PM

Can't play guiter though sorry..... instuments for me a big joke!!! I cant even play keyboard properly ! yeah a guiter....no chance at all

blessed

01-12-2006, 06:45 PM

Perfect is spelled C-r-o-s-s. Need I say more? :P
i like that one what about Perfect is spelled C-a-l-v-a-r-y

marichino_freedom

01-12-2006, 08:09 PM

i can sort of sing....and i am learning how to play the djamba (i think thats how its spelled)....african drum!!! i love it

HotShot53

01-12-2006, 11:04 PM

I used to play piano a bit years ago... though now I just sing and play violin :smiley_vi (I never saw that smilie before this thread.. nice :) )

Jeni

01-13-2006, 01:26 AM

This has all been EXTREMELY interesting to me. : )

I remember when Joe was trying to convince me to write a 100 page list of what a girl wants in a guy...

(when we were 14) how funny is that?

oh did I say Joe? I meant...Mr J. or is it Mr. Oe?

either way...

As for that whole music thing girls...I'm with u on that. I'd like my guy to have an appreciation for music. And hopefully a bit of talent? (Lord, please let him carry a tune) I'm very much into music...so its a large part of who I am..and what I do...and I want to share who I am with whoever I end up with...so I would like him to love it as well. make sense?

The whole muscle thing was cracking me up as well... Those guys on those muscle building magazines gross me out..with all the veins popping out? eew. but toned is nice. I don't do that whole skinnier than me thing.

Hmmm...but above everything...I want him to be so in love with God. I want him to know his experience with God is real..and that his walk is daily. Your relationship with God is SO important...until u can handle that...u can't handle a girl. So if u don't have time for God...don't even think about a girl.

: ) i could add much more...but i don't want to constantly type...

Babyruth

01-13-2006, 02:50 AM

I stopped taking piano lessons 2 years ago because I don't have time for it, but I play the alto saxophone in band at school. It is so much fun!

NeedGod

01-13-2006, 03:43 AM

shhhh...listen. beautiful huh? yup, i know, thats me a singing. :thumbup: ha, anyhow, i can sing, that is what blessed me with most. i sing all the time anywhere. but i never did learn how to play an instrument.

JoeC

01-13-2006, 12:50 PM

This has all been EXTREMELY interesting to me. : )

I remember when Joe was trying to convince me to write a 100 page list of what a girl wants in a guy...

: ) i could add much more...but i don't want to constantly type...

Between Xanga and this, like you don't constantly type already - pash! (the a is pronounced aw). So what's a little more.

Btw, it was a list, just a list. No 100 pages or even 100 points (maybe in your mind it was... but maybe you're just picky and details - REMEMBER PPL - we're dealing with an ACCOUNTANT here! that's right, a BEAN COUNTER!!!)

Anyhow, it was half my idea, half yours for that list and you said you would collaborate with some other girlfriends on it and get back with me. YOU NEVER DID! <straightens tie. calms down>

Jeni

01-13-2006, 12:59 PM

HAHAHAHAHAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

-cough-

oh yaaaaaaaah.

the fish was THIS big!!!!!!!!!

JoeC

01-13-2006, 01:03 PM

obviously it's your fish we're talking about, not mine.

All4Jesus

01-13-2006, 04:11 PM

ok you 2...........I didn't get a chance to talk about my dream guy. Anyway here goes:

He must:

1. Love God so much
2. Be a strong christian who doesn't get weak when things seem bad
3. He must love children
4. Very romatic!!!!!
5. Have a good sense of humour
6. Be clever than me I don't want a guy who is always asking me how things work. He must just work out the stuff and teach me stuff.
7. I don't care about a big house, a fancy house or anything girls wish for. I'd rather be so poor but every day will have other and pray together as one. BUT at least he must have a desent place to live and earn enough money to start a family.
8. Never look at another sister, he chose me, I gave my life to him and for that it's me me me. The love of his life. I will look after him, give him as many children as he wants who would play about his knee. Everyday when he gets back from work he would have a good dinner.
9. Very caring
10. Honest
11. Funny
12. Handsome noooo! please I'm jokin what matters is in the inside.
13. Trustworthy
14. He must just be there for me and love God.

Well, I don't think there's such a guy out there. Please I'll never get married. This is all a fairy tale. DUH!!!! What am I thinking :think:

JoeC

01-13-2006, 05:27 PM

Well, I don't think there's such a guy out there....

I disagree, your wants seem modest enough. The Lord will have someone for you, in due time.

chocolateismybestfriend

01-13-2006, 05:32 PM

# 1 - he must love me more than he loves himself (that works vica versa)

# 2 - the Lord must have top priority in his life, he must not simply claim that, but it ought to be seen in his everyday life

# 3 - i believe in actions, not just words. Show me that you're a Christian, Show me that you're understanding, loyal, trusting, passionate, Godly

# 4 - I would want a strong man, i always hope my husband would be stronger than i, i say that because the women is the weaker vessell and if i was in any way stronger than it would be a sorry sight (physically, mentally, spiritually)

# 5 - Job stability - yet also not letting his job o hobbies get in the way of love and family

# 6 - must love dogs... i mean animals :) Animals are to me, as music is to you guys!

# 7 - the understanding factor is very important, women are CRAZY, up and down, at times and make utterly no sense (esp when pregnant) - sometimes all we need is a hug and an ear to hear us

# 8 - Must be a family man, and love his own family. The love his own family isnt a requirement, some families are hard to love - BUT if they are 'normal' if you cant love and respect the people who've brought you up, or grown up with, that you see the most, that help you out the most, that care for you no matter what - i must wonder how i will be treated later in life

I dont want a man who is nicer to a stranger than his "loved" ones.

# 9 - Trust - it speaks for itself. I dont want any type of relationship if i dont have trust. It must be mutual.

# 10 - He must be expressive, speak whats on his mind, tell me how he feels if there something he doesnt like - girls cant read minds, must not become a clam, it is unhealthy to keep things bottled up

zippnkandibar

01-13-2006, 05:52 PM

that's all a hundred percent true, sarah. except, any man of mine must love...

you guessed it

horses :aaaah:

All4Jesus

01-13-2006, 06:28 PM

I disagree, your wants seem modest enough. The Lord will have someone for you, in due time.

:lol: it just seems too good to be true

NoahL

01-13-2006, 08:20 PM

*pulls out a pad and hastily takes notes*

Kidding... kidding...

blessed

01-13-2006, 10:24 PM

lol lol yes u were making notes i saw u :rofl: GIRLS he was making nots ha ha ha ha

chocolateismybestfriend

01-13-2006, 10:26 PM

i dont think notes will help.

action, perhaps

blessed

01-14-2006, 07:42 PM

for some guys nothing can help:D

chocolateismybestfriend

01-14-2006, 10:59 PM

true blessed lol

Jeni

01-15-2006, 01:15 AM

hahaaa.. notes eh?

I wouldn't discourage that.

it always helps to have another point of view.

NeedGod

01-19-2006, 02:55 AM

let him write notes, then he will be able to tell the rest all about it. :thumbup:

JMC_785

01-19-2006, 02:14 PM

Hey, no picking on the guys about taking notes!!! Note taking is very important! :peep:

blessed

01-19-2006, 03:16 PM

ok Bro ... go ahead take your notes...i would recommend then you read the thread The best man in my life - it has all the tips any guy will need - i think its in the main forum

NeedGod

01-21-2006, 01:57 AM

yeah, read that thread too. mhh, does taking notes mean they will be implementing these or does it mean they will stash the notes somewhere and forget.

Jeni

01-21-2006, 02:05 AM

you never know for sure with men.

lets hope for the best shall we?

NeedGod

01-21-2006, 02:10 AM

nope, on the contrary, lets hope for the worst so that if it is better than that, we will be thankful. :thumbup:

NoahL

01-21-2006, 09:04 PM

Is it just me or has the "Dream guy" thread turned into a "Guy bashing" thread? :tongue: :tongue:

blessed

01-22-2006, 11:03 PM

of course not bro :D they were just stating obvious facts im sorry if it offended you :D

NeedGod

01-23-2006, 02:04 AM

oh, its true though. most guys are not really nice. but the nice guys i met are in the Word so if you fit into this bracket, you have hope yet. :yay:

azurity

03-06-2006, 07:33 AM

You think it would be possible to talk about dream guys without even a little guy bashing? Sheesh!

If I was more awake, I would think of somethings to put on my list. At the moment, all I can think of is:

1. He must love the Lord with all he is. This also means he knows how to pray and reach God, loves the Word & the Message, and loves talking & fellowshipping on it. I don't want a guy who I am spiritually stronger than.

2. He must be tall. I want a man I can look up to.

3. He must have a sense of humour. This means him laughing at my jokes, not just him telling me jokes.

There is more. But like I said, I'm too tired. Need to get my sleep!

NeedGod

03-06-2006, 07:41 AM

i like the fact that you think he must laugh at your jokes to have a sense of humor. lol, you are so confident in your own jokes then, huh?
oh, i want someone who has wisdom, not knowledge, wisdom.
i also want someone who loves God soo much we will be able to talk about God and get excited together
i want someone who will listen to me and who will tell me what is on his mind always.
i want someone who will love me so much and understand me (as much as he can)
lastly, i want someone who will not judge me for my looks and who i will not judge for their looks. looks arent important. i have gone out with guys i couldnt talk to just because they thought i was pretty or coz i thought they were good to look at. what a waste of time! and some people wouldnt even look at me as they didnt think i was pretty. such a waste of time. that is not love. love is rich and pure! and it has to be from God. amen!!!

desertroses

03-06-2006, 02:01 PM

desertroses

03-06-2006, 03:19 PM

You and me both :)....goodness, this is starting to sound like self pity here!....uh oh.

blessed

03-06-2006, 03:23 PM

Sorry i deleted the message before you posted , i realised i posted it somewhere else :D

NeedGod

03-07-2006, 04:50 AM

:) Amen, the last couple of posts were very good, really specific. Well, as I have my 'dream guy' laid out in my mind, I am reluctant to post the criteria, mainly because what might be my 'ideal' may not be what God has instore for me. So, I believe that God knows my heart and that He will provide :)

amen to this too. you know, He knows what we need. and we may want different things but need others. isnt it great that He gives us what we need and not what we want. :yay:

desertroses

03-07-2006, 12:39 PM

amen to this too. you know, He knows what we need. and we may want different things but need others. isnt it great that He gives us what we need and not what we want. :yay:

Yes, it's amazing... and you know, I was talking with my brother and his wife about their ideals (before they dated) and if they ever imagined themselves together as a couple (and now with 2 kids), and they both said that they had imagined their partners would be totally different. They never thought they would end up together. So who knows what God has instore for us, I just keep praying that He will send me a real Believer, who will love me and respect me. So, I keep praying and believing :)

A couple of nights ago I read in the Seventh Seal, where Bro. Branham said to "pray and believe what you asked for you will receive. Just keep knocking. Keep praying and believing until you receive it". And so, here I am, praying and believing.

NeedGod

03-08-2006, 04:02 AM

yeah, yesterday night i kept turning and i couldnt sleep. i thought it was my mattress which was hard, but it wasnt, God wanted me to wake up and talk to me for He had missed me. i just feel it was so. i have been getting lazy to pray and so i havent talked to Him in a long time. anyhow, what i was aiming to say is that when i prayed,i prayed for His will in my life.

My best friend was my dream guy for a long time. He is ideal, he listens, and even knows how to say sorry when he is on the wrong( and sometimes when he isnt and i am *shrugs*). still, i know i may not get someone like that(and i am not counting on him being the one although.....well!). but what God gives me will be for a reason. He gave Moses Zipporah, and she had the biggest temper according to our pastor. He gave Hosea a harlot, for a reason. i dont care what or rather who He gives me, or how they behave. as long as its His will, i just pray He gives me the patience to handle it!

desertroses

03-08-2006, 09:49 AM

NeedGod

03-13-2006, 06:51 AM

i hope so sis. i have not had a real christian guy in my life ever and i am not sure i know how to handle them. i have always gone out with guys who want me for my body and not for me. so in the end i always broke up with them and told them i wasnt brought up that way. i think it was who i hang out with that gave the wrong impression. one of my best friend got a baby and the other works in a casino. the other is still in school but she sleeps with pretty much everyone. anyhow, i think i will stay away from guys for a while coz i have noticed i tend to fear men, and i treat even brothers form church with suspiscion. i value my virtue so much and i have had men nearly taking it away from me by force just coz i wouldnt give it. when i was in the world, i would go out with them, dance and drink with them then refuse to sleep with them so they didnt understand. anyhows, so i am going to avoid men. i told God to give me whoever He wills and to take this fear away from me.

i know He will take this fear from me and make me as good as new. and if He wills, i will get a hubby and a home, someone who will love me for me and not for my body or anything. people even used to ask me, 'you are a virgin yet you fear men, so who are you saving it for? coz you aint going to be married if you fear men'

SisTrev

03-13-2006, 10:55 AM

i know He will take this fear from me and make me as good as new. and if He wills, i will get a hubby and a home, someone who will love me for me and not for my body or anything. people even used to ask me, 'you are a virgin yet you fear men, so who are you saving it for? coz you aint going to be married if you fear men'

Take my advice namwacha...saving yourself for your future husband is well worth it. I was always scared of guys too when i was a teenager...not because of what they would do...but because I was very shy and didn't know how to talk to them or was afraid i'd say the wrong things. I was never outgoing and never the flirty type so most guys just stayed away from me... They said they wanted a girl who was "the fun type" not the "marring type". WEll that actually made me feel good about myself. So when Trevor came along and he was looking for the right kind of girl and I was looking for the right kind of guy The Lord just worked it all out. I was 20 before I went on my first date...honest...and it was with Trevor. My first everything was with him and Im very glad!!!

Just put the Lord first in your life and let Him lead you to the right guy and believe me He will. But most importantly...make sure you both have the Holy Ghost before you get married. Then you know you have nothing to worry about. You'll no longer be afraid of guys because you'll know in your heart that the Lord would never send you a guy that's gonna hurt you or use you if you just trust in Him and let Him do the choosing for you.

Have I talked to much? Didn't mean to drag this out but I just wanted to let you know how it was with me. I prayed very hard day after day for the Lord to send me the right boy and He did. Even after Trevor and I were dating and the devil put doubts in my head about him, I just laid it before the Lord and He took all the doubts away.

Trevor and I have been happily married for 5 1/2 years and I couldn't ask for a better Christian man. The Lord really does hear and answer prayer.

Keep up the Faith!! He'll never leave or forsake you!!!:yay:

desertroses

03-13-2006, 03:00 PM

wow, that was really great words Sis. Trev, really encouraging.... :)

NeedGod

03-14-2006, 01:30 AM

thanks sis. i hope the slight phobia goes away, and i know it will! God does love us so much. i have also heard guys saying they dont want to go out with the marriage kinda girls, then i wonder what they are doing with those poor girls who are with them.
i feel like jumping up and down shuoting, PRAISE GOD, PRAISE GOD!

desertroses

03-14-2006, 12:58 PM

i have also heard guys saying they dont want to go out with the marriage kinda girls, then i wonder what they are doing with those poor girls who are with them.
i feel like jumping up and down shuoting, PRAISE GOD, PRAISE GOD!

I have wondered the same thing. Clearly the girls that go out with these types of guys know that the guy is after only one thing, so it's as if the girls do not mind. It's hard to understand why a girl would stay with a guy when she's only being used. I don't know whether to feel sorry for them or not.
And yes, God is good, because He has kept me from any such situation.

JoeC

03-14-2006, 06:23 PM

An interesting thing happened the other day in speech class.

The type of speech we students were assigned was a pursuasion speech. One gent got up and the first words out of his mouth were

"Show of hands: How many in this room are virgins?"

It was his prelude question to his pursuasion to excercise preventative measures against STDs.

The question caught me flat footed. Immediately there came this suppressive "force" into the room. I knew that in our culture, one wasn't supposed to be a virgin by college age. While there were one or two who proudly raised their hands, I found myself bairly able to - not because I was ashamed, but because I knew how my classmates would think of me for raising my hand (eg "loser").

I really felt like I failed that test and just wanted to get it off my chest.

NeedGod

03-15-2006, 07:44 AM

you may have lost the battle but the war was already won.
strange thing, nowadays i tell ny friends i am a virgin and it seems ok for a girl to be a virgin but for a guy its a hard thing. i am not excusing what you did because i am sure you dont want an excuse to do it again. i am just saying i understand, as a guy,its a bigger challenge. at least it is this sides of the globe.
Next time something like that happens, close your eyes for a short prayer LISTEN UP ALL OF YOU, THIS WORKS, and tell god to give you strength. then keep praying and after a short while, the strength will have come to you. then you can stand up for what you believe in.
i hugged a guy today and yesterday and the day before because its normal in our school and i am still something of a celeb in chool among my class mates. but i know i will manage to do away with that. pray for each other. we all have battles we lose. but dont lose sight of the main prize. and always remember, try again tommorow.and again the next day. eventually, you will win the battle. the saints are just sinners who got up. so get up after you have been put down in battle and fight on. oh my, i get so glad!:yay:
JOE, YOU THERE?
listen dont let that put you down and dont let the devil tell you that you aint good enough as a Christian because you couldnt do that. He might try to do it, that conniving devil guy. get up, pick up your sword, and fight on. you know why, because we are all one body and we need to fight together to the perfection of that body.
i dont know, i think i went off topic there but i wont delete it, it just flowed off my fingers so i'll leave it as it is.

BroTrevor

03-15-2006, 10:27 AM

(eg "loser").

Is that what they call Sons of the King?

MATTHEW 5:11 - 12
Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake.
Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you.

Keep fighting bru. We all lose some battles. Unfortunately for the devil, all he did was get you to realize you just need to keep drawing nigh to God.

JoeC

03-15-2006, 11:48 AM

... listen dont let that put you down and dont let the devil tell you that you aint good enough as a Christian because you couldnt do that.

Oh I did it, I just didn't raise it as qickly or as high as I would have liked. :no: In all honesty, I really wasn't ready for a question like that. It caught me flat-footed.

redeemed_lizzi

03-15-2006, 03:47 PM

Oh I did it, I just didn't raise it as qickly or as high as I would have liked. :no: In all honesty, I really wasn't ready for a question like that. It caught me flat-footed.

I think we've all been in the situation where we've hesitated where we should have been straight on the ball. The important thing is that you realise that there was something wrong with your hesitation and that you want to do something about it. You haven't tried to explain it away -as Satan would have us do sometimes. It's posts like these that make me realise that both sexes have it as hard as each other when it comes to walking the walk. I pray that we all receive the strength we need to go thru our daily lives.
As to my dream guy, the only place I've ever met him is in my dreams and that's where I'd like him stay- I think. Wouldn't that much perfection be un-nerving after a while?

desertroses

03-15-2006, 03:55 PM

As to my dream guy, the only place I've ever met him is in my dreams and that's where I'd like him stay- I think. Wouldn't that much perfection be un-nerving after a while?

Lol. I think it would depend on what the person defines as 'perfection'. Perfect as in the 'ideal' image that the media throws at us...that imaginary, non-existing guy, then yah, that would be un-nerving after awhile.... a bit boring too...cause everything about him would be 'perfect' Lol...

NeedGod

03-16-2006, 12:41 AM

Joe i am so glad you did. :yay: ''aha, gotcha mr devil-man, you couldnt do it after all.''
you know, i fail so many times, and i think i am glad you people are here not to judge but to listen pray and encourage. God gave us each other, dont you ever forget that. this website is also here for a reason, a God ordained reason! and i wouldnt have found it if it wasnt for a reason. i am so glad i met all you people!

jordancpeterson

03-18-2006, 11:04 AM

Oh I did it, I just didn't raise it as qickly or as high as I would have liked. :no: In all honesty, I really wasn't ready for a question like that. It caught me flat-footed.

I hate that when it happens. You look back on it and start thinking... if I had to do that again I would have jumped up and loudly proclaimed "I AM AND PROUD OF IT! See me for details!"

desertroses

03-18-2006, 05:40 PM

Oh I did it, I just didn't raise it as qickly or as high as I would have liked. :no: In all honesty, I really wasn't ready for a question like that. It caught me flat-footed.

Lol, I wouldn't worry about it too much Joe. I think that question would catch anyone a little off guard, and you know what? I'm sure there were a lot of people in that room with you that didn't raise their hand that should have... so don't feel like a loser...I'm suprised that the teacher asked such a question.

JoeC

03-18-2006, 06:27 PM

Thanks for the encouragement. It wasn't the teacher though, it was a student.

desertroses

03-20-2006, 12:27 PM

Thanks for the encouragement. It wasn't the teacher though, it was a student.

ohh..well then, all the more reason not to worry too much :)... we all do things that we shouldn't do, and the things that we do, we shouldn't. It's this cursed flesh body, not your Soul :)

JoeC

03-20-2006, 01:54 PM

I'll be glad when I get out of it. :)

desertroses

03-20-2006, 04:56 PM

Lol, me too!

NeedGod

03-21-2006, 12:30 AM

wont we all be super glad when we get out. but in the mean time, my dream guy is the one i dream about every day. ok, i am going into hysterics. ok, ok, i am going to relax now and act all composed. :rolleyes: as if i can ok, just one scream. YYYYYAAAAAAAAYYYY! oh my my my!:thumbup:

azurity

03-21-2006, 07:53 AM

Oh, me too. I can't wait for that glorified body! Then all wrongs are made right. Everything is perfect.

Someone once told me that when we get to heaven, we are with the partner that the Lord intended us to be with, so if we marry the wrong one here, we'll have a different one there. That doesn't sound right to me. Has anyone ever come across a quote regarding marriage in heaven?

I said a while ago that I was going to post more on my dream guy... but I don't know if there is much else. I guess right now, I just don't even feel like thinking or talking about this mysterious perfect man of mine... there are other things to discuss.

Like that quote. I should ask the person who told me, to see if they can find it.

SisTrev

03-21-2006, 12:57 PM

Ok...i searched and searched and finally found the quote you were referring to azurity...so here it is...kinda long but i wanted to give you the referance too...

QUESTIONS.AND.ANSWERS.3_ JEFF.IN COD SUNDAY_ 64-0830M
1087-119 They went out and set down like that, you know. And she come out; she said, "Dear, I'm--I'm sorry I didn't get them fixed; I'll fix some more for you."
"Oh, nonsense, you knowed I didn't want them that way in the first place," just carrying on like that. They went out there, and set down, and act like they was drunk. They heard her in there kind of snubbing to herself, singing real low voice:
Must Jesus bear the cross alone,
All the world go free?
There's a cross for every one,
And there's a cross for me.
This consecrated cross I'll bear,
Till death shall set me free,
One drunk looked at the other one, said, "She's a Christian; she's got it." And that little woman led her husband, plus these others to Christ that night. See? Why? See? Just be real sweet. Just remember, He knows all about it.
So, sister, or brother, whoever it might be, or brother, it is here, 'cause he asked about his wife, you just be salty; she'll get thirsty if there's anything in her to thirst for. If it isn't, remember, if you got the wrong person, you'll get the right one in the millennium. You just keep on going; all wrongs will be made right there.

blessed

03-21-2006, 05:43 PM

I love that song "Must Jesus bear this cross alone" i sing that to myself sometimes.

JoeC

03-21-2006, 06:34 PM

BroTrevor

03-21-2006, 07:05 PM

Thanks for searching that out for us SisTrev. I sometimes think that whole quotes get invented via the telephone phenomena - then when nobody bothers to search them out they become established "Message myths".

<chuckle>

Not only "message myths" but ESTABLISHED message myths...

I try to be a message myth slayer! :tank:

back on topic....

I think girls' dream guys should be the ones who are active in their love for the Lord.

desertroses

03-21-2006, 07:13 PM

I'm in total agreement

azurity

03-21-2006, 08:25 PM

Absolutely. Didn't I say that?

As for the Message Myths... I agree. That's why you'll often find me asking for the quote.

Thanks so much for finding that, Sister Trev! It's great to finally read things you've only heard about.

Here's another quote, about "the right one."

MAKE.THE.VALLEY.FULL.OF.DITCHES_ HAMMOND.IN SATURDAY_ 52-0719
Now, this was during the time of Israel's backsliding. They'd got away from God. And then Jo--Judah had a king. Now, the king of Israel was Ahab's son, who had succeeded his father, which was--had married out of the Jewish people, married... Just like today when a Christian boy marries a sinner girl, or a sinner girl, a Christian boy, that--that starts something right then. See? Don't you get married unless you're equally yoked together with believers (You know?) to keep trouble down. See?
Now, when God made men and women in the beginning, He made their--their spirits then. There's someone for you. Just wait. See? All right. Now...

NeedGod

03-22-2006, 02:00 AM

Amen Amen And Amen

blessed

03-22-2006, 04:26 PM

I think girls' dream guys should be the ones who are active in their love for the Lord.

I can only say Amen Amen Amen to that Bro Trevor.

collegegirl

03-22-2006, 05:55 PM

Thanks so much for finding that, Sister Trev! It's great to finally read things you've only heard about.

Here's another quote, about "the right one."

MAKE.THE.VALLEY.FULL.OF.DITCHES_ HAMMOND.IN SATURDAY_ 52-0719
There's someone for you. Just wait.

Thank you. I need that.

I know we have talked about everything. Joe, Good for you. Good for raising your hand. I am rather proud of the fact that I still have my virginity. I feel that is the best gift that I could give my husband, along with the first kiss. I love seeing the look on peoples faces when I tell them that I have never been kissed and never slept with a guy.

Keep up the encouragement everyone. No matter how stong you are, you can always use encouragement. And things like the speech class only inspire you to be bolder.

BroTrevor

03-22-2006, 06:43 PM

I feel that is the best gift that I could give my husband, along with the first kiss.

PRAISE GOD!!

You go sis!!! Stay pure before God...what a testimony!!

I hold you in deep respect for your stand.

azurity

03-22-2006, 09:05 PM

PRAISE GOD!!

You go sis!!! Stay pure before God...what a testimony!!

I hold you in deep respect for your stand.

So do I! And all of you, who have taken the same path.

I thank God that I have never even been put in a sitution where I have even wanted to compromise on my stand. Living clean before God in all areas of my life and His Word mean too much to me.

There's a few different angles I could take here, and different quotes that come to mind. But I shall relieve you all with a short post for now.

BroTrevor

03-23-2006, 10:51 AM

Ha ha!

You're an asset to the forums Azurity...even with your long posts!

I'm sorry..but I just have to say it again!!

PRAISE GOD!!

You haven't even kissed a boy! YES!!

I guess the reason this makes me soo happy is because I see so many young people who aren't staying pure like this. There's hardly any left. It's just sooo good to know that there are...

Praise His name!!

JoeC

03-23-2006, 05:33 PM

You haven't even kissed a boy! YES!!

I haven't kissed a boy either. :ok:

BroTrevor

03-23-2006, 06:25 PM

I haven't kissed a boy either. :ok:

GAH!

And we're all glad.

azurity

03-23-2006, 06:27 PM

Joe, you've got no idea the relief this gives me!

And thanks, Bro Trev. Glad someone out there doesn't mind my long posts!

THE.ODDBALL_ JEFF.IN V-6 N-5 SUNDAY_ 64-0614E
50 It's almost a public adultery, today, right before you. I went to a certain place the other night, to get something to eat, and the little boys and girls up there hugging and kissing like I don't know what.
And do you know, my little sister, that that's potentially an adultery? When a man kisses you, he has potentially committed adultery with you. You should never let him kiss you until you're married, for the glands, both male and female glands, is in the lips. Do you understand? And when male and female glands come together, let it be where it may be, you have potentially committed adultery. And you shouldn't let a boy kiss you until that veil is raised on your face and you're his wife. Don't do that! It's committing adultery. It's mixing male and female glands.

Here I stand. I can do no other. God help me. Amen.

Look up the second part of the quote. It's for Joe.

blessed

03-23-2006, 08:10 PM

I haven't kissed a boy either. :ok:
:eek: ...............................

JoeC

03-23-2006, 10:22 PM

Joe, you've got no idea the relief this gives me! I really would have hoped that there had been no cause for prior anxiety over this. :angry:

Just for anyone that was wondering... I haven't kissed a girl either (besides relatives... on the cheek!!! <ppl!>).

BroTrevor

03-24-2006, 09:55 AM

You go Joe!!

Way to stand!!!

I'm loving this!!! You all are soo encouraging! I'm glad you have taken a stand!!

collegegirl

03-24-2006, 12:37 PM

This is all so wonderful. Thank you for the encouragement...and the encouraging experiences.....thank you Joe so much for the...*ahem* sharing.....that..was........touching.

azurity

03-25-2006, 01:42 AM

I really would have hoped that there had been no cause for prior anxiety over this. :angry:
Well, now that you mention it, there was some...

Relax man. It's called Aussie sarcasm.

Babyruth

03-25-2006, 05:16 AM

redeemed_lizzi

03-25-2006, 08:46 AM

You have no idea what relief that gives me Joe. lol I've never kissed a boy either, besides my family. I have kissed girls before though, when I was little, on the cheek. My best friend, who is a girl! Don't almost all little kids do that?

I can't say that I kissed my best friend as a child but as I grew older I did (on the cheek of course). One of my very close friends is french so I got the whole mwah, mwah thing on both cheeks from her. Btw I have never kissed a boy either. I mean boys are icky, yuck ;) No, a kiss is a precious thing at not to be given away lightly and not to just anybody.

JoeC

03-25-2006, 12:04 PM

You have no idea what relief that gives me Joe. lol I've never kissed a boy either, besides my family. I have kissed girls before though, when I was little, on the cheek. My best friend, who is a girl! Don't almost all little kids do that?

Hmmm, On second thought I guess I can't say that I've never kissed a boy then - I might have when I was a little kid (we're talkin' kindergarten here ppl!).

BroTrevor

03-25-2006, 01:55 PM

You all are just awesome...that's all I got to say!

Babyruth

03-25-2006, 05:05 PM

Thanks Bro. Trevor. Same here, Joe, it was elementary school and only on the cheek and to a girl, my best friend! However, I am very ashamed of this, but in kindergarten, this disgusting boy would run around the playground kissing girls on the cheek. I always kicked him if he came near me, but one day he kissed me on the cheek. I was so mad I kicked him really hard and he started crying. I ran to the bathroom and scrubbed my cheek with hot water and lots of soap. I don't think I've ever told anyone about it, in fact, I just remembered it. It's one of those things you put to the back of your mind and don't remember, until now. It still makes me mad!:y14: :012:

NeedGod

03-27-2006, 07:43 AM

i am also proud of everyone here. only God can give us the strength to stay that way.
JOE, you are beyond my help. :(
there are those who have done it before they found God. still, before God, you never did do it. that is the beauty of santification and justification.
its like you never did do it. He forgave you and forgot!
you know, at times, i look back at the things i did before i got saved and when i read the testimony of believers who have not done anything, i stand unworthy before God. i want to ask Him, what did i do to deserve it? what did i do to deserve such brothers and sisters like these ones who love me and who have led such lives.
you know what i did to deserve it? NOTHING!!!
i did nothing to be part of the BODY of Christ. nothing at all.
i am proud to be associated with you people. i am proud to be called your sister. i am proud that God saw me and loved me and told me to come in. i am glad He loved us all.
Goodness, i am proud of you all.
God Bless You!

collegegirl

03-28-2006, 01:10 PM

We are proud of you, namwacha. You have come so far in the short time that you have been on here. I like what you said:

there are those who have done it before they found God. still, before God, you never did do it. that is the beauty of santification and justification.
its like you never did do it. He forgave you and forgot!

That is wonderful.

(as for the whole kindergarten thing....:rolleyes: )

blessed

03-28-2006, 01:49 PM

I have been reading this thread, and I felt a bit unworthy to be among you all, so I did not comment, I was out in the world (my family was in and out of church) before the Lord found me and I made some mistakes, but somehow the Lord had mercy on me and he literaly reached down his hand and pulled me out of the world, showing me that His Word is truth and He loves me.

I thank God for what he has done for me, I know what it means to be saved, to be sanctified and cleansed, I know what it means to wash His feet with my tears and most of all I KNOW THAT HE LOVES ME.

I know that I am his child, he has cleansed me and filled me with the Holy Ghost and he is using me to help other people.

And as Namwacha said he forgive and he forgets, strange thing though I tried to remember being kissed I know it happened but I don't remember the feeling or anything like that, it is like it never happened. That is how good God is.

I am happy for those who have kept themselves and also for those who have found mercy and grace in the sight of the Lord.
Lord Bless You all

JoeC

03-28-2006, 06:13 PM

blessed, I still think you have a wonderful testimony.

BroTrevor

03-28-2006, 06:27 PM

That ink spot you once had, has been washed away in God's tub of bleach.

God doesn't remember you kissing...

Why should you??

hallelujah!

I too have a past... we all have a past. We were all born in sin...

But God...rich in mercy!!!!

I am thankful for those that God has kept throughout their lives in purity.

And I am thankful for those that are able to accept God's free gift to us all...the cleansing blood of Jesus Christ!!

blessed

03-28-2006, 06:41 PM

When i think of the grace of God to me, it just makes me cry I cannot comprehend why he cares so much for me he literaly had to bring me in kicking and screaming..telling me all the while he is doing this because he loves me and that I don't belong there.

When I think of it I cannot comprehend such love, that when I was in sin he was still protecting me from a lot of things i could have done much more than kissing but he kept me from it, that in itself is a miracle its just by the grace of God. I was not into drinking or partying, now that I think of it he was with me even though I was in all that muck and sin, imagine that a Holy God standing by my side pleading with me, it brings tears to my eyes as I write this

"Oh how I love Jesus
Oh how I love Jesus
Oh how I love Jesus
Because he first love me"

*sings*
Oh Lord you're beautiful, your face is all i see
For when your eyes is on this child
Your grace abounds to me"

Oh Lord you're beautiful, your face is all i see
For when your eyes are on this child
Your grace abounds to me"

"I want to take your Word and shine it all around
but first help me just to live it Lord
and when I am doing well help me to never seek a crown
For my reward is giving glory to you"

BroTrevor

03-29-2006, 12:47 AM

"for my reward is giving glory to you"

Beautiful....absolutly beautiful...

NeedGod

03-29-2006, 06:33 AM

oh dear, i am soooo happy.
Blessed, i know excactly what you mean. i dont remember so much either. and when i think about it now, its not as it used to be then. i used to go dancing all night and drinking and i got to kiss some guys. and then, it seemed so good and fun. my parents were not important in terms of their advice(oh how my dad used to pray and cry for us) and it was so much fun. now i look back and i see a diffferent person, as if it wasnt me to begin with.
Praise God!
:yay: :yay: :yay:
Forgiven, that is the song i want to sing, OOOh, am forgiven,
Jesus loves me lives me still!:yay:
oh, if we could add more smilies there i would have put thousands of those little yay things.
what more, we are Blessed and loved, and accepted, and cleansed.
yeah, you guessed right, i am nearly jumping off my seat right now. if i wasnt in school, i would be dancing singing and crying to God
God bless you saints. God bless you soooooo much!

blessed

03-29-2006, 09:51 AM

God bless you namwacha, and everyone

Praise God for what he has done for all of us!!!!!

NeedGod

03-31-2006, 02:43 AM

oh, and we cant praise Him enough....i just want to sing and shout all day

we were told on Sunday that the devil uses marriage to try and pull the people especially the youth out of the church. i cant remember the quote exactly coz i was just so excited and i dont write notes in church, i just let it all soak in. anyhow, the preacher gave examples of how in the time of Moses, before redemption, the devil killed children at the time of Moses birth, at the time of Jesus, children were also killed at the time of Jesus birth, then he gave us a quote on where the prophet said that now, the devil was using youth and he wasnt killing them physically but spiritually. if i get it, the quote, i will let you know.
he said how a true believer can have a hard time when married to a non or make believer. how the devil uses this to kill people spiritually. this sermon was for preparation for a youth camp we will have here.
be careful when you chose mates and when you associalte with whoever. it is infact better to be unmarried than to be married to someone who will draw you back!
take care, the devil has level his machine guns on you and me. he will use anything to get you to go back!
i felt a need to share that with you.
God Bless You

BroTrevor

03-31-2006, 12:47 PM

take care, the devil has level his machine guns on you and me. he will use anything to get you to go back!

Ah yes... machine guns. What do machine guns do against someone who is already dead??

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E-58 And you reckon yourself dead, and your life is hid in God through Christ, and sealed by the Holy Ghost. The only way the devil could ever get you, he'd have come through the same washings that you came through, and receive the same Spirit you did, and then he'd be your brother.

HA! I doubt I'll ever call the devil "brother".

Fortified by the Word.
Holding the shield of faith.

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