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jtucker
11-02-2006, 06:11 PM
Today was very unusual and very hard for me, it was as if satan stepped up all his efforts he could to get me to be prideful and think on the wrong things, But i thank Jesus for being my saviour for dwelling in me as his tabernacle. keeping me in His Word by grace through faith in Jesus Christ.

So the day begins with Lucy a woman in my history 111 class telling me i should date her daughter, the whole thing started because i went in early and was sitting in the room reading the Bible, and she was asking if i was in a seminary or studying it on my own.

i told her i don't believe in seminaries upon which she agreed and told me she hated them herself. and we were talking about how the youth either just don't care about God or try but are to ashamed to say anything, and then she told me i should date her daughter because her daughter is a christian as well. it was somewhat akward and took a turn for the worse when a girl who practices wicca came in and had this huge hickey in which Lucy pointed out,i will spare you guys the details i suffered as they came across my ears.

then my teacher came in with this huge smile and told me i looked very spiffy and had this look in her eye that was well to say the least was re-affirming what i already knew from previous times which is not a good thing at all. i went to the slc to work on the computers to print something out and was greeted by the lustful stare of a young girl, thankfully my ride arrived and i left as fast as i could.

i had to come back at 3:30 and was walking to the library when form behind me i heard whistling but i decided to just keep walking pretending i didn't hear it. but alas i heard a girl from behind me yell after me and so i turned to say hi and she flat out told me i looked gorgeous so i just told her thanks and that it was kinda embarassing and walked away as she entered her class.

today is one of those days i just want to go home and not come out, i mean to be complimented is nice and all and i can handle that but to be gawked at and hit on and looked at with lustful glances is horrible, it makes me feel dirty and shameful in a way, i mean i know in this last age it's not unusual for girls to be so crazy, seeing as this wicked generation is controlled by spirits (the whole satan's eden thing)but man it's like the girls are just as bad as if not worse than the guys. i just really fight with becoming upset and letting it get to me.

this was weighing heavy on my heart and needed a place to rant about it. i don't see myself as even remotely goodlooking, or handsome or anything to even call home about (I have some self esteem issues when it comes to looks). i just ask you all pray for me on this, as it has made my day the type where i dread walking down the hall because of what will be said or done next.

HotShot53
11-03-2006, 01:43 AM
Wow.... don't know what else to say, really ;)

Nate
11-03-2006, 02:16 AM
Dude. I'm jealous. But if you want to not have it so hard, wear cargo pants, an old sweatshirt, ball cap, and grow out some facial hair.

Then you'll look good, but the only girls attracted to that look are too shy to say anything.

Heh. It's always worked for me.

jtucker
11-03-2006, 02:56 AM
thanks nate I will try that!

jtucker
11-03-2006, 12:00 PM
LOL you gals know your in the Fort right?

BroTrevor
11-03-2006, 12:27 PM
LOL you gals know your in the Fort right?

<snigger>

<laugh>

bwaaa hahahahahahahahahaaa

:chef

jtucker
11-03-2006, 02:23 PM
I THINK I'M GOING TO GO INSANE!!!!!

Lucy the female who wants me to date her daughter..SHE BROUGHT HER DAUGHTER TO CLASS TODAY!!! grrrrr the nerve of some people, it was to say the least akward, i hope that never happens again, i didn't talk to her nor did she approach me thank God but i just tried to survive the class period.


then i went to pick up my pell check which wasn't as much as i expected it to be so i have to rebudget it all over again.

went to the gym and they told me i couldn't work out in bluejeans which is ridiculous because i work out in bluejeans at home just fine all the time.

i guess i will have to come back later today and workout, what a waste of time and gas.

i'm getting really burnt out of college, i hate it, it's not just like oh it's getting to crunch time for exams and all that. because i started getting burnt out last semester before exams even started.

Just please pray for me, i know God will lead me in what he wants me to do. and all will work out fine, i just kinda stressed about it.

sorry for posting such a negetive post

BroTrevor
11-03-2006, 03:24 PM
Bro...

Calm down.

I understand it's rough to be out there. But God placed His best in this age. There will be saints coming up to you over yonder saying "I don't think I could have gone through that...how did you overcome?"

Stay in prayer. Stay in a Godly atmosphere. So the teacher brought a girl to class so she could ogle at you. No big deal. Let them see the life of Christ on display.

Let them see a child of the king.

Hold yourself as an alien in a strange land...for truly that's what you are. In your land, you're a child of the king.

simple
11-03-2006, 05:01 PM
First off I will be praying for you.
Secondly, I find that if I stay focused on something (albeit the Word, a tape or something your doing) it helps keep distracted from outside distractions.

Know who you are and walk in it.

I find that most stuff is just in our heads and sometimes we make believe too much or miss-interrupt what's going on around us.

oh and get some nice nylon sweats. that's what I use and although I'm not goodlooking, this summer I turned a lot of heads.
:crazy:

"Why is that man in sweats and not shorts?" "Must be from a foreign country"

-simple
the only make-believing I'm doing is in Mr. Roger's Neighboorhood.

jtucker
11-03-2006, 05:11 PM
I live for Christ, i am not mean nor am i condoning of their sinful ways, i just try to be Christ like to them and show them the light of Jesus, it just hurts me so to see these females given over to such vile spirits just to try me. i guess i get frustrated at the females themselves though too. i know i should not rant about it so much, i'm sorry for that, please forgive me and pray with me that i am able to curb it out of my life.

Thanks for all the mercy, encouragement and love you all have shown me especially Bro Trevor, it's very much appreciated

Angelo
11-06-2006, 09:02 PM
Why you? God let it happen because he knows you can overcome. That is is how I think He boasts of His children. After the trials, there are blessings.

Benoni
11-20-2006, 05:55 AM
Hello,
That is good. When a child of God starts 'why me' then i know he is about to overcome. What type of mature advice would come out of an inexperienced but old christain. The bible tells us that Jesus was tempted in all ways so that He would be able to succor them that are tempted.
'Not yet' more is to come; only one question remains: Will you stand and prove strong. He that overcometh trial shall be strong.

One thing yet is true, after passing an exam you are pushed to another grade and given a higher one!

Till Christ be formed in you.
(the stature of a perfect man)

Be zealous and give thanx.
benoni:)

NeedGod
11-28-2006, 07:53 AM
i know this is the fort and i am sorry for posting here but this has burdened my heaart and i had to. Please some guy, copy paste this and put it as your own post then delete this

Josh, you know, i am so happy this is happening to you. You will think i am crazy for saying that, but after the sermon we had this week,i believe that was not a crazy line. let me tell you why i am not crazy.
you see, the harder it comes at you, the more assured you should be that He is fixing to fill you up. You are nearly a finished good, but you've got to be tested, to see if you are strong enough for the ride, before the chief inspector can seal you. Before you can graduate to the next class, you have to pass the test for this one, so that you can graduate. Oh Josh, you know how to beat this? the only way is to dip into the river Jordan. Yeah, read the Word more than you've read before and cry to Him harder than you ever have before. I am a living testimony that God does answer prayer, read it in the testimony :) (http://www.yqnews.org/forums/showthread.php?t=1326)thread and see. He does answer them, and He does so fast.
Dont pray for Him to move this mountain, but rahter for Him to give you strength to climb. Oh, for when you get to the top, you can be crowned. And the biggest crown we can ever get, is Him filling us.
He is jusleading you up to the next stage of perfection, read the thread How to be filled (http://www.yqnews.org/forums/showthread.php?p=58659#post58659) to see what i mean. Oh Josh, i am not preaching, but i love Him so much i cant help telling you this. He loves you, and He is the one who allowed it to happen. Oh, dont you love Him, He is so glad, watching you now, and puffing up His chest happily, Thats my son you see. The devil will tempt you, but rejoice for with every victory,, Jesus just puffs His chest more and just weeps for Joy.:)
Once more, i am sorry for posting in the Fort.I did not mean to be rude and intrusive. You may not believe this, but this is like the third time i am actually reading the fort. I avoid it, but i could not today, this thread jus pulled me in.:surrender once again, sorry