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[God'schild]

One Question why did you put this under the Girl talk thread ???
it could be under i different thread as well....
Or do you just want this for girls......?????

[already bought]

Well I think well I know that sometimes there are things that I would like to share that don't fit under just any topic so I thougth why not have a place where we can share whatever as girls. Like what ever it might be is ok. This is a place where we should feel free. So I guess i will start off.
By the way any topic is an on topic in this thread there is no off topic.

[already bought]

i sometimes find it hard to pray like I do when I'm at home. Like being here is great but the apmostfer is so different Its like talking to God is so much harder. You know its like you don't have that freedom.

[already bought]

When I'm going though a hard time and I don't understand I just claim the promise's that you gave and walk on. When satan tells me I've gone to far no point to keep on serving i just say

God promise that he would be there he promed it for me. All thougth he said it way before I was born. He new that I would be here so He made those promises just for me and I'm going to hold on to those promises because he's holding on to me.

Every Promise from Genises to revelations was put there just for me. The whole bible is Gods love letter writen just for me. Its not just history or just storys that I read its life and its a promise That He love's me.

[already bought]

ok I am just going to put this down because i kind of need to think. First of all I would ask you all to pray. Because i need a full time job. And well my truck back tire is low on air and it is an old tire and all my tires on my truck or old. So i really need some new tires. And well i did have money to put them on but I desided to use it to go to camp in Manitoba becuase God is more important to me the a truck. But yet the truck is the only way I really have to get around right now. Also it needs other work to. But most of all I want to have Gods will in it all.

[already bought]

And I know that using the money to go to camp was the right thing to do but now you know its kind of hard. Its like satan comes to you and is like look what happend now. You used that gift of money that some one gave to you to go to camp and now look at your sister and mom and dad. They only have your dads truck and I guess right now I just need to look at the bright side of things and relise that all thougth I don't know how I will make ends meet I know that God will help me meet them and I know I did whats right and what God asked me to do. And God is way more important to me then a job or a truck or any other thing. And every other time I needed something to be done on my truck he supplied for that need and I know that if I put him first he will do the some now to because he promised to.
Now I know that God will take care of it all and well I have a peace. I don't know how he will i just know he will.

[EllyMae]

Amen :)
And you'll be in my prayers about finding a job :)
God bless

[already bought]

Thank you ellemay. I really appreacate it.

[SisTrev]

I have a very hard time praying out loud. Does anyone else have this problem. It bothers my husband that i dont like to pray out-loud during our devotions, and no matter how hard i work at it, its just not an easy thing for me to do. I feel like my prayer time is supposed to be personnal between me and God and its just hard to share that with someone...even my husband.

[God'schild]

I have a very hard time praying out loud. Does anyone else have this problem. It bothers my husband that i dont like to pray out-loud during our devotions, and no matter how hard i work at it, its just not an easy thing for me to do. I feel like my prayer time is supposed to be personnal between me and God and its just hard to share that with someone...even my husband.

I do i have that problem. it's hard... already bought has tried to get me to pray out loud as well but i can't do it no matter how hard i try i just can't do it.... Already bought told i would have to do it when i got married..... but i just can't see myself doing it....

I totaly understand.....

[EllyMae]

I understand what your saying SisTrev... I usually pray silently, but praying outloud doesn't bother me at all, I just pray however the Spirit is moving me. I don't think either is better than the other, just whatever you're felt led to do.

[already bought]

I can't really pray silenlty because I feel then I don't really consintrate. I love praying out loud when I'm alone. It really the only way i trully feel that I conect. Even if I don't pray out loud I will then sometimes move my lips or wisper because it helps me focuse. I never knew that others have the same thing I thougth it was just Godschild so I guess its not bad after all. I guess I don't mind praying out loud and I don't mind praying in a public place with some one eles eather. ( I don't mean to lift my self up so please I don't want it to come across that way and I hope it dose not.)

[FreeAtLast]

I think it´s quite important to actually speak out loud when we pray (I don´t mean shouting. lol. Just saying the words out loud instead of just saying them in our hearts).

Doesn´t the bible say in Romans 10:10
For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.

another scripture says in Hebrews 13:15
By him therefore let us offer the sacrifice of praise to God continually, that is, the fruit of our lips giving thanks to his name.

I personally feel like speaking out loud everytime I pray (even if it is at times just hardly more than a whisper)

There is power in the name of Jesus.

[God'schild]

i have a very hard time praying out loud.... i will sometimes wisper a prayer but to pray out loud is very hard for me.....i don't know why i just can't do it.....

[EllyMae]

Just keep working at it and it will become easier.

I think the most important thing, is that you ARE praying.. :)

[God'schild]

Just keep working at it and it will become easier.

I think the most important thing, is that you ARE praying.. :)

I always say that to myself that it will become easier.... but i still have a hard time doing it.....when i feel like i should pray out loud i whisper i don't like anyone hearing me pray....and if i all of a sudden find out that someone is listen to me pray i start praying sliently..... so when we pray as a group at bible study or a sing song i don't pray i pray sliently.....I don't know why but's it's so hard for me to pray out loud...

[EllyMae]

Is it something you are insecure about?

There's nothing to be ashamed of :) You know what the scriptures say...

[God'schild]

Is it something you are insecure about?


I wouldn't say i'm insecure(but you could be right) about praying out loud..... I just can't birng myself to pray out loud and i don't know why....... I think that when i spend time with God it should be just me and God and no one else......

[God'schild]

do you girls ever get really emontional that you just want to cry........but you don't know why you want to cry.....????

[EllyMae]

Yeah, I think we all do.

And whenever you pray, whether it is outloud or silently.. it is just between you and God. Even if people do hear you, you shouldn't be concerned with them while you are talking to the Lord. :)

[already bought]

do you girls ever get really emontional that you just want to cry........but you don't know why you want to cry.....????

Presonaly I think it has to do with being a girl. I know I get that way sometimes. Its not like its wronge to cry. I think its part of the way God made us.

[EllyMae]

I don't think it's wrong either. God definitely made us girls very sensitive and emotional, hehe...

[God'schild]

i tend to be very emontional.............and sometimes my emontions run wild.............I agree God made girls very emontional.........But he knew that we could handle being emontional.............I know some guys that are emontional but not as much as us girls........

[EllyMae]

Guys don't tend to be as emotional as girls. But, when I see a guy cry I can tell he is really sincere. Takes a lot for a guy to cry, usually...

[already bought]

Guys don't tend to be as emotional as girls. But, when I see a guy cry I can tell he is really sincere. Takes a lot for a guy to cry, usually...

totaly. I agree. Sometimes I wonder why don't they cry more you know. Not saying that they should do it all the time. But what I'm trying to say is that it is awesome to see a guy (Holy Ghost filled) being able to show emotions. I think in the past socity tried to tell us you were not a man if you cryed or showed emotion. I disagree. I presonaly think its awesome to see them show who they really are. Not that they should be a sissy. I guess its kind of attractive. Because (well I'm glad this is girl talk and no guys can coment!) I personaly don't want to marrie a guy who is like a rock! Would you?? Not saying that they shouldn't be manly. Defently. But you can be manly and still show emotions. Have a heart. Jesus did.
He cried. He held childern. Any one know more things LIke that that Jesus did. I guess what I am trying to say is put Him as your example.

[already bought]

did you ever wonder why guys seem to have nothing to talk about in there fort. Like they don't even have a page full of thread startes and we already have 4. I don't get it. But then I guess girls just talk more maybe and guys listen more. I don't know tell me if I'm wronge.

[EllyMae]

totaly. I agree. Sometimes I wonder why don't they cry more you know. Not saying that they should do it all the time. But what I'm trying to say is that it is awesome to see a guy (Holy Ghost filled) being able to show emotions. I think in the past socity tried to tell us you were not a man if you cryed or showed emotion. I disagree. I presonaly think its awesome to see them show who they really are. Not that they should be a sissy. I guess its kind of attractive. Because (well I'm glad this is girl talk and no guys can coment!) I personaly don't want to marrie a guy who is like a rock! Would you?? Not saying that they shouldn't be manly. Defently. But you can be manly and still show emotions. Have a heart. Jesus did.
He cried. He held childern. Any one know more things LIke that that Jesus did. I guess what I am trying to say is put Him as your example.

No, I wouldn't. I definitely want a manly holy ghost filled guy for a husband. But, I don't think we have to worry about holy ghost filled gentlemen being like a rock :)

[God'schild]

No, I wouldn't. I definitely want a manly holy ghost filled guy for a husband. But, I don't think we have to worry about holy ghost filled gentlemen being like a rock :)

My future husband has to be HOLY GHOST FILLED...... That's a must...... i also want a guy down to earth with a sence of humor....... A person that i can count on and that he will be my best friend......... A person i can really talk to when i'm down or upset.........
THANK GOD FOR FRIENDS AND CHRISTIAN FELLOWSIP.........

[redeemed_lizzi]

I have a very hard time praying out loud. Does anyone else have this problem. It bothers my husband that i dont like to pray out-loud during our devotions, and no matter how hard i work at it, its just not an easy thing for me to do. I feel like my prayer time is supposed to be personnal between me and God and its just hard to share that with someone...even my husband.

I don't have a problem with it but maybe it's because I was brought up in an environment where praying aloud was common. If you are uncomfortable then I wouldn't force it. It is much better to be sincere and yourself with God than forcing yourself to be something you are not. However if there is solid scripture to back the reverse of what I am saying then I would pray for help in this area. In your devotionals are u praying for yourself or your family? If it is personal things relating to you alone, I can understand why u are uncomfortable praying aloud. There are some things that will always remain between you and God alone.

[redeemed_lizzi]

do you girls ever get really emontional that you just want to cry........but you don't know why you want to cry.....????

I definitely do. Sometimes you just need a good cry. Either to get rid of some pent up emotions or just because it makes you feel better. It may not be rational but we wouldn't be women without our crazy emotions and hormones :).

[God'schild]

I definitely do. Sometimes you just need a good cry. Either to get rid of some pent up emotions or just because it makes you feel better. It may not be rational but we wouldn't be women without our crazy emotions and hormones :).

True...........

[already bought]

I'm going to be leaving the forumss for a while how long I don't know but I believe I need to. this place is consuming to much of my time. In which I could be reading my bible or even the message or spending time with people.......... The list could go on. I just feel i have gone over bord. And I just pray that God will put such a fire in my soul for more of him.
I have become to really like this place but I didn't realise how much its costing me in the process. I just hope that i will become so addicted to Christ as I have become to this place. Any way I'm going to go.
by

[God'schild]

I'm going to be leaving the forumss for a while how long I don't know but I believe I need to. this place is consuming to much of my time. In which I could be reading my bible or even the message or spending time with people.......... The list could go on. I just feel i have gone over bord. And I just pray that God will put such a fire in my soul for more of him.
I have become to really like this place but I didn't realise how much its costing me in the process. I just hope that i will become so addicted to Christ as I have become to this place. Any way I'm going to go.
by

Make sure you come back and post here and there...... don't leave for good........

[Babyruth]

I'm going to be leaving the forumss for a while how long I don't know but I believe I need to. this place is consuming to much of my time. In which I could be reading my bible or even the message or spending time with people.......... The list could go on. I just feel i have gone over bord. And I just pray that God will put such a fire in my soul for more of him.
I have become to really like this place but I didn't realise how much its costing me in the process. I just hope that i will become so addicted to Christ as I have become to this place. Any way I'm going to go.
by
I support you a hundred percent sister. I haven't been on as much lately and it's been really good. Not that I don't miss things here, but God is way more important. Do come back sometimes though.

[blessed]

Ok sis but don't forget us....

[AlanaH]

Yeah, no matter what happens, come by and say hey every now and then....we'll miss you!!!

[Babyruth]

I think you all know I lost a close friend about 2 months ago. Well, it's really hard. I've been very emotional about it and sometimes I feel stupid for it. I was talking with a friend about it today. The hardest part is not knowing what to do. Sometimes I feel like bawling, but I know I can't. Sometimes I think maybe I'm just working myself up, but then I know I'm not. I've cried so much, but mostly just short cries. I feel like I need to just cry for an hour or so with boxes of tissue and someone to just sit with me. I'm not too good at dealing with things. I keep it bottled up and let it out a tiny bit at a time. I feel like such a baby, but I don't really care. I feel so cheated that I am not going to see my friend for a while. I miss her so much! I don't know what to do. I just miss her. I don't ever want to forget her, but I don't want to obsess about it. I guess I'm just rambling, but it feels good to write it down.

[AlanaH]

I volunteer to sit with you cause I seriously need to do the same thing...
I was at the concert and they brought up someone that I was close to that's gone now, and I lost it completely right then and there, so I know what you mean.
Let me know if you need to come over and talk...anytime.

[God'schild]

I think you all know I lost a close friend about 2 months ago. Well, it's really hard. I've been very emotional about it and sometimes I feel stupid for it. I was talking with a friend about it today. The hardest part is not knowing what to do. Sometimes I feel like bawling, but I know I can't. Sometimes I think maybe I'm just working myself up, but then I know I'm not. I've cried so much, but mostly just short cries. I feel like I need to just cry for an hour or so with boxes of tissue and someone to just sit with me. I'm not too good at dealing with things. I keep it bottled up and let it out a tiny bit at a time. I feel like such a baby, but I don't really care. I feel so cheated that I am not going to see my friend for a while. I miss her so much! I don't know what to do. I just miss her. I don't ever want to forget her, but I don't want to obsess about it. I guess I'm just rambling, but it feels good to write it down.


I know what you mean.
i keep everything bottled up i hardly let anything out even to my close friends or to the people i love..
Keeping everything bottled up leads to stress.. believe it causes stress..

[AlanaH]

Maybe that's why I get stressed out so often...I keep quite a few things hidden up in there...

[God'schild]

yea i went to my family doctor because my insides were hurting and she asked me all these questions and finally she said your under stress, she asked me if i keep everything in i said i do. so yea keeping everything bottled up leads to stress and eventinally(sp?) leads to a nervous breakdown.

[AlanaH]

I'm well on my way then.....:(

[blessed]

I think you all know I lost a close friend about 2 months ago. Well, it's really hard. I've been very emotional about it and sometimes I feel stupid for it. I was talking with a friend about it today. The hardest part is not knowing what to do. Sometimes I feel like bawling, but I know I can't. Sometimes I think maybe I'm just working myself up, but then I know I'm not. I've cried so much, but mostly just short cries. I feel like I need to just cry for an hour or so with boxes of tissue and someone to just sit with me. I'm not too good at dealing with things. I keep it bottled up and let it out a tiny bit at a time. I feel like such a baby, but I don't really care. I feel so cheated that I am not going to see my friend for a while. I miss her so much! I don't know what to do. I just miss her. I don't ever want to forget her, but I don't want to obsess about it. I guess I'm just rambling, but it feels good to write it down.

Honey next time you feel like screaming just do it, have a good bawl and you'll feel much better after. Love yah and praying for you.

[EllyMae]

I think you all know I lost a close friend about 2 months ago. Well, it's really hard. I've been very emotional about it and sometimes I feel stupid for it. I was talking with a friend about it today. The hardest part is not knowing what to do. Sometimes I feel like bawling, but I know I can't. Sometimes I think maybe I'm just working myself up, but then I know I'm not. I've cried so much, but mostly just short cries. I feel like I need to just cry for an hour or so with boxes of tissue and someone to just sit with me. I'm not too good at dealing with things. I keep it bottled up and let it out a tiny bit at a time. I feel like such a baby, but I don't really care. I feel so cheated that I am not going to see my friend for a while. I miss her so much! I don't know what to do. I just miss her. I don't ever want to forget her, but I don't want to obsess about it. I guess I'm just rambling, but it feels good to write it down.

If you really think that crying for a good hour would help you, then do it. There's nothing wrong with crying. You're not acting like like a baby. :)
I'll be praying for ya.....

We all know how it feels to lose someone we love.

[AlanaH]

Seems like I've actually been doing that a lot lately....

[Babyruth]

Thanks for all your support, you gals are awesome.

[AlanaH]

No problem....that's what friends are for......:)